Is it time to break up??, Relationships Options

[katebaybayy]

so i dont know if im just overreacting.. but my boyfriend doesnt trust me talking to guys or hanging out with guys. He gets angry when i tell him a guy is good looking and he tells me i dont want him anymore (??).. i know i get angry when he talks to girls but its only because hes so nice to them and ive yet to see his nice side myself.
then, he tells me that he has something important to tell me concerning our relationship but he said he would only tell me in person when i had been trying to get a hold of him all day he finally texted me around midnight saying he was going to bed and he wouldnt tell me even though i had been waiting to talk to him all day. i told him if he cared about my feelings he would tell me and not make me wait all day to know because i have a feeling its something bad.
am i overreacting?
what should i do?
please help!
oh, and weve been together for 3 years

[katebaybayy]

yeah. well i try talking to him and when i do he either shuts down, ignores me, or just up and leaves. that or he gets pissy and defends himself as if hes always right and i feel like hes blaming me for everything.
and he tells me that i dont make him happy sometimes because i bxxch at him for stupid things.
like how he lets his mom talk shxt about me and never tells her to stop when ive been asking him to for almost a year. i told him it would make me feel better if he would at least tell her even if it doesnt help because when he doesnt it makes me feel like he doesnt care about me.
thanks for the advice

[aaayotiffany]

yeah. well i try talking to him and when i do he either shuts down, ignores me, or just up and leaves. that or he gets pissy and defends himself as if hes always right and i feel like hes blaming me for everything.

like how he lets his mom talk shxt about me and never tells her to stop when ive been asking him to for almost a year.

okay, no. he's treating you like crap. you don't deserve that. and if he's letting his mom talk crap about you and he doesn't do anything to change that, thats messed up. i've heard about not caring what other people say because they just hating on what you guy have but its his mom and he should at least TRY to change that.

i just found out about him emailing them the other day when i got his pw lol.

and thats snooping. thats really bad. that doesn't make anything better. i understand you let him ready your stuff but unless he tells you its okay, you really shouldn't do that because its just going to make matters worse.