Is it time to break up??, Relationships Options

[katebaybayy]

so i dont know if im just overreacting.. but my boyfriend doesnt trust me talking to guys or hanging out with guys. He gets angry when i tell him a guy is good looking and he tells me i dont want him anymore (??).. i know i get angry when he talks to girls but its only because hes so nice to them and ive yet to see his nice side myself.
then, he tells me that he has something important to tell me concerning our relationship but he said he would only tell me in person when i had been trying to get a hold of him all day he finally texted me around midnight saying he was going to bed and he wouldnt tell me even though i had been waiting to talk to him all day. i told him if he cared about my feelings he would tell me and not make me wait all day to know because i have a feeling its something bad.
am i overreacting?
what should i do?
please help!
oh, and weve been together for 3 years

[mipadi]

so i dont know if im just overreacting.. but my boyfriend doesnt trust me talking to guys or hanging out with guys. He gets angry when i tell him a guy is good looking and he tells me i dont want him anymore (??).. i know i get angry when he talks to girls but its only because hes so nice to them and ive yet to see his nice side myself.

Isn't that hypocritical? It sounds like neither of you really trust each other.

then, he tells me that he has something important to tell me concerning our relationship but he said he would only tell me in person when i had been trying to get a hold of him all day he finally texted me around midnight saying he was going to bed and he wouldnt tell me even though i had been waiting to talk to him all day. i told him if he cared about my feelings he would tell me and not make me wait all day to know because i have a feeling its something bad.

Of course, he's kind of being a jerk about this, but maybe he's just nervous to talk about it, and maybe it'll take a little prompting to get him to open up. Don't let him clam up so easily; he probably wants to talk about it, but just doesn't know how to do it.