Is it time to break up??, Relationships Options

[katebaybayy]

so i dont know if im just overreacting.. but my boyfriend doesnt trust me talking to guys or hanging out with guys. He gets angry when i tell him a guy is good looking and he tells me i dont want him anymore (??).. i know i get angry when he talks to girls but its only because hes so nice to them and ive yet to see his nice side myself.
then, he tells me that he has something important to tell me concerning our relationship but he said he would only tell me in person when i had been trying to get a hold of him all day he finally texted me around midnight saying he was going to bed and he wouldnt tell me even though i had been waiting to talk to him all day. i told him if he cared about my feelings he would tell me and not make me wait all day to know because i have a feeling its something bad.
am i overreacting?
what should i do?
please help!
oh, and weve been together for 3 years

[aaayotiffany]

wow. this reminds me of my last relationship. not so much the fighting part. he didn't trust me at all when i trusted him entirely. it was hard. my ex was over-protective and possessive and all that junk. but i dealt with it for almost three years because i loved him. then something happened and i couldn't take it anymore.

well obviously, you have to talk to him. but you have to stay strong for yourself, its okay to flip out because you have been together for a long time. but if you guys fight everyday and he gives you bs excuses and junk, its really not worth it. life's too short to be dealing with bullshxt like that. if you guys been together for such a long time, he shouldn't be so jealous and over-protective. if you've never cheated on him, he should have no reason to feel so insecure about you chilling with other guys.

so yeah, its probably time to break up. unless you truly feel like you guys could work something out.