Is it time to break up??, Relationships Options

[katebaybayy]

so i dont know if im just overreacting.. but my boyfriend doesnt trust me talking to guys or hanging out with guys. He gets angry when i tell him a guy is good looking and he tells me i dont want him anymore (??).. i know i get angry when he talks to girls but its only because hes so nice to them and ive yet to see his nice side myself.
then, he tells me that he has something important to tell me concerning our relationship but he said he would only tell me in person when i had been trying to get a hold of him all day he finally texted me around midnight saying he was going to bed and he wouldnt tell me even though i had been waiting to talk to him all day. i told him if he cared about my feelings he would tell me and not make me wait all day to know because i have a feeling its something bad.
am i overreacting?
what should i do?
please help!
oh, and weve been together for 3 years

[katebaybayy]

yes i have talked about it with him but he just says that he doesnt want me to find out that i want to be with someone else.