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[ReggieM]

Now that i have a better understanding of girls and whatnot ive found that that its never a good idea to ask a girl advice about dating especially in the initial steps like when ur not dating the girl already. I came to the realization that guys advice to other guys on the subject is actually better than a girls especially a guy with success.

Do girls find this true as well? and visa versa?

idk it might seem confusing ill elaborate later on.

[LoveToMySilas]

Hm...well I always thought that guys went to girls for all their problems. But maybe its because girls always tell you the "dream guy" way of doing things where is a guy would tell you a more realistic way of doing it.

[EyeLuvMeesun]

girls always tell you the "dream guy" way of doing things where is a guy would tell you a more realistic way of doing it.

I'm going to have to agree with the above statement, and calling it true.

As for what I think:
1. When you ask a guy who has had his fair share of girlfriends how to "begin" to date a girl then it's pretty obvious that he has the right "moves" or "system" to get one of the opposite sex to like him. With this in knowledge, the asker is more self-assured about the "methods", because the "teacher" has had success before the "learner".

2. A female would tell the "learner" an "ideal" way of achieving one of the opposite sex. This however may promote "false-a-tivity" (I know it isn't a word, but bare with me okay?) or "fake-ness" (also not a word ) of a person in order to achieve what he desires. The "ideal" method is also most likely the hardest to pull off and in most cases fails because the "learner" is not capable of fully befitting the "character" he is supposed to become.

I am just merely stating my opinions and so hope that all who read my post know that this can also go vice-versa because the situation is almost identical in both cases of Male AND female.