Stuck in the Past, still in love with my ex Options

[Piccola]

Hi,

I would like to share with you the things I`m passing through at the moment. I'm married and I have even a son. My husband really loves me and if he could he would even get the moon if I ask for it. Where is the problem? I`m not happy. I'm stucked in the past. I met him 8 years ago, I loved him from the first day i saw him . We became good friends. Best Friends, I used to tell him everything, he knew me inside out. We used to go out together, share anything. He was my soulmate. Both knew we were in love but none of us ever said that we were.... Maybe because if we had said that we loved each other, the spell would have been broken. It was very stupid not to confess our feelings and to remain bestfrieds for ever. After 2 years in this situation I met my husband. We started a relationship which was very different from that I had with Drew.Drew said he was very happy for me and that he hope to find love as well. I thought I love my husband, and I do love him but I am not in love with him as I was with Drew. After 3 months we were together one day Drew told me he was in love with me and that he was afraid of losing me. I cried, I didn`t know what to do, I still loved Drew, but couldn`t leave my husband... at that time I thought the best thing was to go on with my husband and try to forget Drew. That was the last time I saw Drew. Years passed and I got married, but my love for Drew never left me. He has a girlfried but still ask for me whenever he meets my friends. Now about 3 months ago we found each other on line. We chatted and sent emails, and found out that although 6 years have passed we are still in love and we will always be. I'm desperate.. I don`t know what to do.
Please help

Thanks
Piccola

[f00LisH_h3aRt63]

i agree with what everyone has said. you should stay with your husband for the sake of your son. BUT, if you really know for sure that you love drew more than your husband..or even love one and not the other then it's best for your son that you make a choice. if you stay with your husband just because of your son then what will that show your son what love really is. at the same time you don't want to be selfish and hurt your husbands feelings as well as put your son in a compromising situation.

you have to weigh out the pros and cons.

jackie