Was I wrong? Options

[Ashley_Brook]

My boyfriend and I had sex yesterday afternoon and he got off early and I didn't get off at all. After he got off, we stopped and he told me he owed me one for that later. I giggled and said ok and then we had some other stuff to do. Well later that night, he gets tired and we get in bed and he starts to fall asleep. I asked him, "You aren't going to sleep, are you?" Then he said, "I have to be at work in 6 hours." Then I said, "Hey you owed me one!" and he said, "Right now??? I'm tired and work a physically exhausting job." Then I just got kind of huffy and turned over and went to sleep. Then like 15 mins later, he starts touching me down there, and I said, "Hey you don't have to if you don't want to." Then he stopped and went to sleep.

Now this morning, as he was just getting ready for work....I didn't talk to him but he was kind of seeming pissed off and left without saying goodbye to me....and I'm just wondering if I was totally wrong in this situation or what.

[NoSex]

Sex ruins everything. But, no, seriously:
Apologize, verbally, and... with a sexual favor.
He'll get the message loud and clear. If he is still in a bad mood, then maybe he might owe you an apology himself. But, as of right now, I'm sorry to say, but you do appear to be in the wrong. Don't be so upset when the loving doesn't come exactly as you like it and exactly when you want it - it's never going to be perfect. Even further, your man might have certain fears of sexual inadequacy, you need to be supportive on all-fronts in this case. Because, for some men, pleasing a woman can be a very daunting task.

Be patient, and be considerate. But, honestly, you didn't dig yourself a hole or anything, just... apologize.