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IamRad
post May 16 2008, 02:26 PM
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Thanks for the input guysss, but i have another question...Do you think i should talk to him about it? cause he actually did say he wanted to talk to me in person. Or do you think i should just leave it?

But leaving it always leaves things undone, and i hate that :/

So, here it goes. Sorry for it being so long _unsure.gif

Boy casually asks me to prom, i accept. We don't talk for awhile, until the three days before prom, to get things organized.
Prom comes around, he picks me up, we go in the limo and here it starts.
He randomly puts his hand on my knee, like you would do with your boy/girlfriend. Every single picture we took, cute or humorous, he would ALWAYS have his hand around my waist/shoulders.
When it came time to slow dance? Our song was "dont wanna miss a thing" by aerosmith, a part came up where it said "i wanna hold you close" and HE pulls me in closer.
As the night progresses, he starts showing more affection, through dancing, holding my hand, whatever.
End of the night comes, in the limo...HE held my hand 3 times on his own free will.
HE walks me to my door, like a gentleman, we hug, and i kiss him, cause i felt a mutual connection, no? Well, he did kiss me back. and then we hugged again.

Two days later?

I ask him about after prom.
He tells me, "i just kissed you cause i think you're hot, and i dont like you like that"
He kept apologizing cause he realized i was hurt by this, obviously.
He also said he kissed me back cause he didnt wanna ruin my night...

but who leads someone on THAT much? My gosh...If he didn't do any of those things, i would have never kissed him! and i told him that! and he said, he just got caught up in the moment and didnt know what to do?

Does this make any sense whatsoever?

Meh :[
 
 
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IamRad
post May 27 2008, 09:08 PM
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ah yes! well, when he was shutting me down, he mentioned that he couldnt see himself having a GOOD conversation with me, which is total bull cause ive tried many times, hes just not responsive. so when we talked, i basically talked the whole time to get my words out there, and he just nodded and said yeah, i know, yeah.

Well, he was really closed up and stuff, kinda shy seeming ya know? he said something about how he wished he did like me cause it'd be a good thing for him, but he just doesnt.
I shouldve questioned that, poop.

Uhhh, then i asked him why he held my hand in the limo and why he kissed me back and whatnot, and he said that he just got caught up and wasnt thinking about anything but a good time. He said sorry, and he said he understands if i was mad at him, i just told him im not the type of person to hold a grudge against someone, and he said oh well i guess thats a good thing for me. I even told him i HATE awkward situations such as avoidance in the hallways, and he understood that, so now he notices me in the halls and says hi ha...


Oh! and he said something about how he didnt want a relationship to come between him and his frieds, hahaha...and before he said this i told him that im not trying to get him to like me or anything but its just the fact that he doesnt even know me, and he just judged me based on what he knows, which isnt much. After he said that friends bit, i told him he cant base his life upon someone elses cause thats just stupid and things never work out that way.

Now i dont know WHY, but i keep thinking about him and i DONT want to :[ It actually annoys the hell out of me, which is sad cause im annoying myself now :[
 

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IamRad   Seriously?   May 16 2008, 02:26 PM
JokeInsideJoke   that guy is such a bitch! OMG! if any guy ...   May 16 2008, 02:32 PM
ChangeofHeart   Wow what not a gentleman, a guy does not tell a gi...   May 16 2008, 02:32 PM
synkro   really, i think those are normal things to do whil...   May 16 2008, 02:41 PM
doughnut   QUOTE(synkro @ May 17 2008, 03:41 AM) you...   Jun 3 2008, 06:07 AM
mizzkewl06   i agree with Bianca.. my knee would be very famili...   May 16 2008, 02:44 PM
JokeInsideJoke   'i just got caught up in the moment' that ...   May 16 2008, 02:48 PM
IamRad   Omg I know! Everyone has been telling him to j...   May 16 2008, 02:52 PM
sparrowdust   QUOTE(IamRad @ May 16 2008, 03:52 PM) Omg...   May 17 2008, 10:40 AM
aaayotiffany   i think i would have swung and then kneed him. god...   May 16 2008, 03:12 PM
LoveToMySilas   Eh, I'm sorry to hear that. Boys will be boys...   May 16 2008, 03:28 PM
JokeInsideJoke   you know, he isnt even worth thinking about   May 16 2008, 04:18 PM
IamRad   i know :[ but it's hard NOT thinking about it ...   May 16 2008, 10:00 PM
RissyMel   wow, what a jerkface! i would smack that boy.   May 16 2008, 10:05 PM
XTC   Well this guy is obviously a douche bag. Douche b...   May 16 2008, 11:26 PM
DoubleJ   I think that it attributes to you being young and ...   May 16 2008, 11:28 PM
heartquasm   I agree with queen/synkro. What you described him ...   May 17 2008, 12:26 AM
IamRad   QUOTE(heartquasm @ May 17 2008, 01:26 AM)...   May 17 2008, 09:56 AM
Kay-   Better than leading you on MAJORLY while he alread...   May 17 2008, 12:44 AM
x-hotchocbun-x   from what i just read now i h8ed this guy! I...   May 17 2008, 06:20 AM
Bishinobi   I find it hard to believe he just did all this bec...   May 17 2008, 10:45 AM
IamRad   ^ Yeah, that's why i got the impression that h...   May 17 2008, 11:00 AM
Glamourouz   It doesn't make any sense at all...he's ei...   May 17 2008, 09:39 PM
Flaunted   well why didn't you talk to your date before d...   May 17 2008, 10:28 PM
Insurmountable   What the f**k, that makes no sense at all. I would...   May 17 2008, 10:37 PM
aybaybay007   hmm i can see him in the future. old and lonley. w...   May 17 2008, 11:46 PM
IamRad   should i talk to him about this? he actually said ...   May 18 2008, 06:56 PM
TiffanyFactorial   you might want to just drop it all together. he do...   May 18 2008, 07:20 PM
Glamourouz   Sure, talking about it won't hurt...I say go o...   May 18 2008, 07:21 PM
Sandraaa   So? What happened when you talked to him?   May 27 2008, 07:37 PM
IamRad   ah yes! well, when he was shutting me down, he...   May 27 2008, 09:08 PM
rockable   What an f**kbrain. He had no right to lead you on ...   May 28 2008, 04:15 PM
imnoxonesmemory   a-hole 101 shame. guys like this really suck. he...   Jun 3 2008, 01:43 AM
vintage-toile   he seems like a really unfair guy. and everyone do...   Jun 3 2008, 05:56 AM


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