how to act around your Ex, eeek. |
 May 24 2008, 11:24 PM
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so my ex boyfriend is "friends" with some of my friends, so i see him around. we broke up over a month ago, but he was really rude to me a couple weeks ago so i just stopped talking to him completely. Then when he heard i got my license he apologized (after i confronted him about how rude he was) and he wanted to be friends again. I keep him at a distance, but we still talk and I've given him and our mutual friends a couple of rides, but i cant help but feel I'm supposed to be mean towards him, even though most of the time i just want to be nice.
I dont want to be all nice and him be mean to me again. how should i act towards him? what would you do? |
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May 26 2008, 10:21 AM
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I don't think he likes you again just because he's nice when you're nice. To me, that's him just following your act and not really treating you with the normal, post-breakup respect that you deserve.
But yeah, don't give him any more rides unless he gives you gas money beforehand. The advice synkro gave is good. |
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Joss-eh-lime how to act around your Ex May 24 2008, 11:24 PM
absinthe Do they give you gas money?
haha, being me, i p... May 24 2008, 11:30 PM Joss-eh-lime he doesnt drive, we werent talking before he found... May 25 2008, 12:02 AM absinthe Ohhhhhhhh. Ew.
Well, do you think you should be ru... May 25 2008, 12:16 AM Joss-eh-lime when im nice he's nice, when i give him the co... May 25 2008, 12:23 AM absinthe Do you think he wants to more than "just frie... May 25 2008, 12:26 AM Joss-eh-lime i dont know! hahaha
should i ask him?! May 25 2008, 12:39 AM absinthe haha, i`m not sure. It kind of seems like he l... May 25 2008, 12:41 AM Joss-eh-lime why b/c he is nice when im nice and stuff?
i dont ... May 25 2008, 01:02 AM absinthe Hmmm. Then, just tell him? If I were you, I'd ... May 25 2008, 01:06 AM Joss-eh-lime good idea :)
i think i will.
but im thinkin i won... May 25 2008, 01:07 AM synkro treat him like you would treat an aquaintance. no... May 25 2008, 01:44 AM Joss-eh-lime i like the idea of treating him like an aquaintanc... May 26 2008, 04:24 PM PrIncEoFSeXaPpeAL ... .. he onlyy nicee da u cuz u drivee NUB.. May 26 2008, 04:33 PM Joss-eh-lime ^wtf. duh.
of course i knew that.
i was just wonde... May 26 2008, 10:48 PM
PrIncEoFSeXaPpeAL QUOTE(Joss-eh-lime @ May 26 2008, 1... May 27 2008, 07:36 AM Sandraaa Sounds like my ex. Ignore the idiot if you can. Li... May 27 2008, 06:18 AM mizzkewl06 be indifferent. don't show any emotions. don... May 27 2008, 10:14 AM Glamourouz QUOTE(mizzkewl06 @ May 27 2008, 11:14 AM)... May 31 2008, 09:35 PM Joss-eh-lime yeah i've been doing fine being indifferent.
... Jun 2 2008, 01:37 AM vintage-toile have a word with your friends and let them know it... Jun 2 2008, 11:06 AM Joss-eh-lime i have talked to my friends, and they just want hi... Jun 7 2008, 12:35 AM AnnahhbeL Hmm, just act normal.
My ex hates me because I br... Jun 7 2008, 12:25 PM |
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