omg what do i do Options

[Elba]

Okay so my ex and I have been broken up for over a month now, but we still talk and it still feels like we're together.

Now there's this guy in my geology class that I just barely knew existed yesterday after he started emailing me when I mass emailed everyone the notes I had for the class. He found me on myspace and added me and now he's saying we should hang out.

Wtf I am still talking to the ex but my myspace says I am single but I am DEF not ready to mingle and I do not want to stop talking to the ex and I feel like even talking to this guy is like not very nice to the ex and I don't know what to do.

Plus, this guy is white and whities are definitely not my type, but he's attractive. Actually, I don't know if he's attractive, he looks cute?

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[TiffanyFactorial]

what ruth & pinacoolada said. anyway, white boy is A CUTIE. no seriously, he's cute.

you really need to think about YOURSELF and not anyone else right now. i know it's selfish but you must think about yourself. you may love him but you must remember about yourself. there's this quote from sex & the city.

samantha recently got back with this guy who cheated on her and she was in love with him. she knew she couldn't trust him nor let him out of her sight. one day when they went on a trip to Atlantic City, every time he'd tell her that he would be in the room doing his work, she'd rush up to the stairs to make sure he wasn't banging the maid. then she blurted out to him:

"I'm sorry Richard. I love you but I love me more."

you gotta take into account for your feelings too. i know you don't want to lose him, but maybe you won't. be friends with him. take things slowly.

and this cutie pie white boy that's asking you to hang out, what if it's just a friendly hang out? and if anything, hang out with him if you're bored and you've got nothing else to do! maybe he'll help you get over all of this. don't use him as a rebound or anything and i know you said you dont want to hang out with anyone so play everything on your time frame. but make sure that you get YOU time and YOU get to relieve your woes by surrounding yourself with some good friends and try to have fun..without your ex.

best of luck! you're far too pretty to be dwelling over a boy. he should be dwelling over you.