i still have feelings for him... Options

[PlasticPiolet]

6 months ago i asked my ex (when we were still together) what he think of guys that plays around chicks, those that lies and cheats.. he told me he thinks they're absolutely disgusting


around christmas 2007, he told me he doesn't want to break up with me and he also didn't want to spend christmas with me.. cause he's found someone else.. then i found out he's been with that fat bitch for one whole month and i just found out around xmas


so he cheated and i do hate him for what he's done to me after he promised he will never do this to me but i think of him all the time! and it's been 5 months since the break up.. i am now back with my boyfriend from two years ago. and sometimes i do think of my ex, well all the time i shall say!

i somehow figure out his girlfriend's bebo password and god i was pissed off and hate her to guts so i deleted her account, then i thought if i know her bebo password then i might know her email password.. and now its like i check her mail everyday, or sometimes. i just can't help it! a month ago my ex txted me saying he was bored cause hes girlfriend was at work and he has nothing to do, he almost beg me to be friends again and was thrilled to meet up with me..


i just ahh so confusing! i want to forget about him, but why is it so hard?

my now boyfriend totally understand this whole thing with my ex, he knows that my ex has hurts me badly and he stands by me through all this! which is lovely of him! but i want to forget my ex, because i think it's unfair on my now boyfriend if i still have my ex on my mind...


what do you guys think?

how can i forget him and live happy?

[wingz3r0]

Holy guacamole over le chocolate-covered breadsticks! That's crazy LOL
talk! Anyways um
There is no past tense to love, either you do or you never did,
since you actually still got love or in love with'em
well it took me almost 2 years to get over my X & she did worst she broked up with me on the phone with me WITH HER OTHER MAN ON THE PHONE!!! she useto drive me crazy useto blame me for stuff I aint do & useto tell me what I couldn't wear for alil bit..

you need to get closure from him to get over him,
& nice of your " now boyfriend to deal & put up with you still thinking about that JERK " it's only Bcoz he understands that nobody can control their feelings it just happens.. & stop thinking about your x and make those NEW movements with your " now boyfriend " he wont be understanding for long eventually he will get insecure about that & start to neglect you ~> make the best of what you got now, they're called X's for a REASON X OUT

The U.S. constitution doesn’t gurantee happiness, only the PURSUIT of it.
You have to catch up with the rest of it yourself. Don't depend on ppl to make you happy it's your JOB

6 months ago i asked my ex (when we were still together) what he think of guys that plays around chicks, those that lies and cheats.. he told me he thinks they're absolutely disgusting
around christmas 2007, he told me he doesn't want to break up with me and he also didn't want to spend christmas with me.. cause he's found someone else.. then i found out he's been with that fat bitch for one whole month and i just found out around xmas
so he cheated and i do hate him for what he's done to me after he promised he will never do this to me but i think of him all the time! and it's been 5 months since the break up.. i am now back with my boyfriend from two years ago. and sometimes i do think of my ex, well all the time i shall say!

i somehow figure out his girlfriend's bebo password and god i was pissed off and hate her to guts so i deleted her account, then i thought if i know her bebo password then i might know her email password.. and now its like i check her mail everyday, or sometimes. i just can't help it! a month ago my ex txted me saying he was bored cause hes girlfriend was at work and he has nothing to do, he almost beg me to be friends again and was thrilled to meet up with me..
i just ahh so confusing! i want to forget about him, but why is it so hard?

my now boyfriend totally understand this whole thing with my ex, he knows that my ex has hurts me badly and he stands by me through all this! which is lovely of him! but i want to forget my ex, because i think it's unfair on my now boyfriend if i still have my ex on my mind...
what do you guys think?

how can i forget him and live happy?