i still have feelings for him... Options

[PlasticPiolet]

6 months ago i asked my ex (when we were still together) what he think of guys that plays around chicks, those that lies and cheats.. he told me he thinks they're absolutely disgusting


around christmas 2007, he told me he doesn't want to break up with me and he also didn't want to spend christmas with me.. cause he's found someone else.. then i found out he's been with that fat bitch for one whole month and i just found out around xmas


so he cheated and i do hate him for what he's done to me after he promised he will never do this to me but i think of him all the time! and it's been 5 months since the break up.. i am now back with my boyfriend from two years ago. and sometimes i do think of my ex, well all the time i shall say!

i somehow figure out his girlfriend's bebo password and god i was pissed off and hate her to guts so i deleted her account, then i thought if i know her bebo password then i might know her email password.. and now its like i check her mail everyday, or sometimes. i just can't help it! a month ago my ex txted me saying he was bored cause hes girlfriend was at work and he has nothing to do, he almost beg me to be friends again and was thrilled to meet up with me..


i just ahh so confusing! i want to forget about him, but why is it so hard?

my now boyfriend totally understand this whole thing with my ex, he knows that my ex has hurts me badly and he stands by me through all this! which is lovely of him! but i want to forget my ex, because i think it's unfair on my now boyfriend if i still have my ex on my mind...


what do you guys think?

how can i forget him and live happy?

[NATTLEUNG]

Yeah its definitely hard to get over your ex. and thing is your never gonna forget about him no matter how hard you try. he was a part of your life. You cant walk past it, i think you gotta get through it. But its normal to miss your ex. Thing is your always gonna be missing somone you know? I mean it doesnt have to be anyone big, it can be someone that made you smile or made you feel good, and when those people kinda go away, your gonna miss them some how. Yeah its good that your current boyfriend understands, just let time heal it. I think its something that is beyond your control. but dont worry as time goes by, it will get better. Just concentrate on your current boyfriend and your goals in life. You gotta go through the bad in order to have the good. If you never have the bad times then the good wouldnt feel even better you know? Its okay if things didnt work out last time, that just proves there something more amazing out there and that will love and treat you better! Have a positive mind =) I wish you the best of luck =) !