the first kiss? Options

[na-nancy]

so my boyfriend tried to kiss me on the lips for the first time and i
was so not ready, i was surprised and i felt him coming towards me so i got scared and turned his face away. > <
i felt so stupid and i didn't know what to do....
i am not ready for it, YET...but omg...
i don't know what to do..i think he was kinda sad afterwards..and probably thinking that i don't like him the same way..
but i really DO..i like him ALOT...but it's jut that i'm not ready for the first kiss yet..and YES, i never ever kissed a boy before.
i don't know what to do anymore...=(
any advice?

[NATTLEUNG]

I think you should just talk to him about it. I mean a relationship should be open and comofortable. just be like oh hey sorry about last time, i'm just not ready for it yet. be chill about it. and im pretty sure he'll be alright with it. Relationships they take time and as time goes by it grows more and more =) so no worrries!

[Sprague]

I think you should just talk to him about it. I mean a relationship should be open and comofortable. just be like oh hey sorry about last time, i'm just not ready for it yet. be chill about it. and im pretty sure he'll be alright with it. Relationships they take time and as time goes by it grows more and more =) so no worrries!

^I agree, also! Just talk to him about not being comfortable kissing him yet. Tell him that you think kisses are precious, and should be cherished. An open communication is the key to any relationship -- just let him know how you feel about it, and apologize if you think you hurt his feelings.

I consider kisses precious, too. I've kept count (I feel silly admitting it xD) of how many kisses I've had with my boyfriend, too. It isn't weird, trust me. :)

Good luck with your situation. And remember not to be pressured into anything you aren't ready to do. :)