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She can't make a decision?, Why? Please tell me why?
iEvann
post May 19 2008, 05:37 PM
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I met this girl, went great, known her for about 2 months now.
Story goes like this.
-We crushed on eachother.
-She is confused because the guy she liked before she met me was still in the picture.
-She obviously likes me more but just can't make up her mind.
-We started dating and she called the relationship off a week later.
*This was because she was still confused.
-Usually, I'd just say byebye, but I am hooked to her. I just can't let go.
-She's still thinking and I don't know what to do.

*Should I say i'm done?
orr.....
*Should I wait until she's made up her mind?

Advice?

Thanks.
 
 
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Just_Dream
post May 20 2008, 02:41 AM
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Question - do you still keep in frequent contact with her? I mean, if she "obviously likes you more" and you are hooked on her (even though you've only known her for two months), then I think you should wait for her. Just make sure that you're still talking to her because you don't want her to start slipping back into a stronger relationship with the other guy. You know what I mean?

I mean, although it's not best to come on too strong, just help remind her that you care a lot about her and it most likely will work out, since you said she obviously likes you more. You never know when you might be losing something amazing.

Just make sure that you're not waiting to long! You don't want to be strung along. Tell her to give you an answer within a given time. Make a compromise. If she's not willing to let you know within a short amount of time, then maybe she doesn't like you as much as you thought she did.
 

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