omg what do i do Options

[Elba]

Okay so my ex and I have been broken up for over a month now, but we still talk and it still feels like we're together.

Now there's this guy in my geology class that I just barely knew existed yesterday after he started emailing me when I mass emailed everyone the notes I had for the class. He found me on myspace and added me and now he's saying we should hang out.

Wtf I am still talking to the ex but my myspace says I am single but I am DEF not ready to mingle and I do not want to stop talking to the ex and I feel like even talking to this guy is like not very nice to the ex and I don't know what to do.

Plus, this guy is white and whities are definitely not my type, but he's attractive. Actually, I don't know if he's attractive, he looks cute?

ms

[Glamourouz]

Ok, well I don't know you or anything about your situation but from what I've heard by reading your post, you are being quite stupid. You are allowing your ex to control your decisions. If you continue to let the thought or hope of you two getting back together keep you from finding someone that's going to treat you any better you are going to keep putting yourself through a cycle and you'll never be truly happy. How can you honestly be ok with this? Yea, if you have been with someone for years it will be hard to let go & move on, but you should always give yourself the option to hang out with someone else. You don't even have to call it a date and just make it known that you just got out of a relationship & not ready to let someone else feel that spot yet. Always keep your options open. Your ex could continuously screw you over just because he knows he has you wrapped around his finger. He can tell you anything & you'll believe it because of the history but you'll be back where you are now. Just a thought...Don't let him hold you back from finding happiness elsewhere...