omg what do i do Options

[Elba]

Okay so my ex and I have been broken up for over a month now, but we still talk and it still feels like we're together.

Now there's this guy in my geology class that I just barely knew existed yesterday after he started emailing me when I mass emailed everyone the notes I had for the class. He found me on myspace and added me and now he's saying we should hang out.

Wtf I am still talking to the ex but my myspace says I am single but I am DEF not ready to mingle and I do not want to stop talking to the ex and I feel like even talking to this guy is like not very nice to the ex and I don't know what to do.

Plus, this guy is white and whities are definitely not my type, but he's attractive. Actually, I don't know if he's attractive, he looks cute?

ms

[brooklyneast05]

i duno. it just seems to me like you're wasting too much of your time chasing him around. if something as simple as hanging out with someone is enough to make him ignore you and "let go", then i guess i'd just be seriously questioning how much he really cares. if he doesn't really care, then i don't really understand what you're hanging around for or why you're worried about loyality-like issues.

it seems like just a circumstance when you've been around/with someone so long that they are integrated into your life. even if it's not really that great anymore, you still don't know what to do without it.