I don't get this trend |
 May 10 2008, 10:32 AM
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So I've noticed this trend from a lot of different females I know. It usually ends up to where they get into a relationship with a guy, or end up close to being one. But the girl and the guy do all the couplish stuff. The guy refuses to give the relationship an official label. The girl in most cases says I'm content with doing the couplish stuff, but not being in an official relationship. Guy and girl decide it's ok to date other people too, but the feelings they have for each other is obvious.
Why are more people doing this these days? |
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May 13 2008, 08:43 AM
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open relationships.
kind of like saying "lets mess around with other people, but youre my prioritized fuckmate." |
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May 13 2008, 01:51 PM
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QUOTE(doughnut @ May 13 2008, 08:43 AM)  open relationships. kind of like saying "lets mess around with other people, but youre my prioritized fuckmate." agreed. because some guys cant handle just having one, and i guess an open relationship is better than a guy cheating. but also this is basically the same thing as cheating just with the other person knowing that the other is screwing someone else. |
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May 13 2008, 04:11 PM
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QUOTE(Megarina99 @ May 13 2008, 01:51 PM) agreed. because some guys cant handle just having one, and i guess an open relationship is better than a guy cheating. but also this is basically the same thing as cheating just with the other person knowing that the other is screwing someone else. 1. Guys aren't the only benefactors in an open relationship. 2. Girls cheat too. 3. It can't be cheating if the parameters of the relationship are understood and consensual. |
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May 13 2008, 04:49 PM
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QUOTE(NoSex @ May 13 2008, 04:11 PM) 1. Guys aren't the only benefactors in an open relationship. 2. Girls cheat too. 3. It can't be cheating if the parameters of the relationship are understood and consensual. That is very true, girls do cheat. But personally I think guys tend to cheat more, becuase sometimes they follow the way their penis points not their heart. |
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May 13 2008, 10:40 PM
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QUOTE(Megarina99 @ May 13 2008, 04:49 PM) But personally I think guys tend to cheat more, becuase sometimes they follow the way their penis points not their heart. Just because you f**k someone else doesn't mean you don't love another. |
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May 14 2008, 10:14 PM
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QUOTE(NoSex @ May 13 2008, 10:40 PM) Just because you f**k someone else doesn't mean you don't love another. Thats not what im saying, im saying that sometimes guys cheat becuase their penis is pointing one way. Not saying that they dont love the other one but its how it goes sometimes. |
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dpl313 I don't get this trend May 10 2008, 10:32 AM
LoveToMySilas Its basically just the method of "messing... May 10 2008, 11:21 AM DoubleJ It's honestly just people being people. Relati... May 10 2008, 11:38 AM
TiffanyFactorial QUOTE(DoubleJ @ May 10 2008, 09:38 AM) It... May 10 2008, 04:02 PM Synesthesia People don't want to feel tied down by committ... May 10 2008, 11:40 AM mizzkewl06 QUOTE(Synesthesia @ May 10 2008, 12:40 PM... May 13 2008, 09:57 AM karmakiller It's called and open relationship. It's a ... May 10 2008, 02:15 PM aaayotiffany friends with benefits?! lmao.
my best guy frie... May 10 2008, 02:17 PM aybaybay007 because they're young May 10 2008, 03:50 PM sweetest-emotion ugh i can relate TOO much with this!
my curre... May 10 2008, 06:49 PM doiink it's "okay" to fuck up when the rela... May 11 2008, 12:18 AM foxx QUOTE(doiink @ May 11 2008, 12:18 AM) it... May 11 2008, 09:20 AM defecate im in dis boat. i just want sum. watever i can get... May 11 2008, 09:52 AM NoSex I would propose that it is, at least, in part a ba... May 11 2008, 01:56 PM Heathasm well i think that its a good idea. if their feelli... May 11 2008, 03:53 PM yaamakoh reminds me of made of honor.
i'm in the same b... May 11 2008, 04:02 PM Glamourouz Simply because they're not ready to be in a co... May 11 2008, 07:23 PM LoveToMySilas ^ I believe there was a study that said guys cheat... May 13 2008, 06:09 PM aimeesayswhat Isn't this an open relationship?
anyways I wa... May 13 2008, 09:52 PM Kay- that's stupid. May 14 2008, 11:35 PM dpl313 After reading most of these responses. Wow. I... May 18 2008, 11:56 AM |
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