BrokenHeart, Hurt Options

[Mzhoniedip]

Have anyone ever thought you was in a perfect relationship. Ive been in a relationship for 5 years with this guy and i really love him and we just recently broke up and honestly i dont know what to do...? Help

[Sprague]

I can't say I can amount to five years yet, so I can't relate all too much, but I've been in a relationship for two years and a half years to have it just go down the drain like that. We were planning on getting married, also. So, in a way, I can relate. I'm sorry for that to have happened. *hugs*

Talking it out with friends seems to work well with most people. Try distracting your mind from it. Every time your thoughts start to wander towards him, immediately think of something else -- completely random, mind. I don't know if this would help for you, but grinding on MMO's really got my mind off of things and it helped me get over the afore-mentioned two year relationship I had. Go out and do things out of the norm that you wouldn't do if you were together with him. Go out with friends, go see a movie, anything that will get your mind off of it. It will take some time, but this will all eventually be over.

If anything, cB is here for you, as am I. If you ever need to talk, or want to just let it all out there, you can PM me.

Stay strong.