I don't get this trend |
I don't get this trend |
May 10 2008, 10:32 AM
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So I've noticed this trend from a lot of different females I know. It usually ends up to where they get into a relationship with a guy, or end up close to being one. But the girl and the guy do all the couplish stuff. The guy refuses to give the relationship an official label. The girl in most cases says I'm content with doing the couplish stuff, but not being in an official relationship. Guy and girl decide it's ok to date other people too, but the feelings they have for each other is obvious.
Why are more people doing this these days? |
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May 10 2008, 06:49 PM
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![]() Tasty. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 471 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,784 |
ugh i can relate TOO much with this!
my current bf was iffy about becoming "official" because he was just worried that if we did things would get messy or he didn't want to hurt me by not being a "good" boyfriend. we were together, not seeing other people, just no title. but eventually he accepted that we were doing okay as a couple and we were official! it just takes time. i didn't press it too much and he warmed up to it. he wasn't doing it to mess with other girls, he just needed to be okay with it fully before he committed. and now we're happily together! |
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dpl313 I don't get this trend May 10 2008, 10:32 AM
LoveToMySilas Its basically just the method of "messing... May 10 2008, 11:21 AM
DoubleJ It's honestly just people being people. Relati... May 10 2008, 11:38 AM
TiffanyFactorial QUOTE(DoubleJ @ May 10 2008, 09:38 AM) It... May 10 2008, 04:02 PM
Synesthesia People don't want to feel tied down by committ... May 10 2008, 11:40 AM
mizzkewl06 QUOTE(Synesthesia @ May 10 2008, 12:40 PM... May 13 2008, 09:57 AM
karmakiller It's called and open relationship. It's a ... May 10 2008, 02:15 PM
aaayotiffany friends with benefits?! lmao.
my best guy frie... May 10 2008, 02:17 PM
aybaybay007 because they're young May 10 2008, 03:50 PM
doiink it's "okay" to fuck up when the rela... May 11 2008, 12:18 AM
foxx QUOTE(doiink @ May 11 2008, 12:18 AM) it... May 11 2008, 09:20 AM
defecate im in dis boat. i just want sum. watever i can get... May 11 2008, 09:52 AM
NoSex I would propose that it is, at least, in part a ba... May 11 2008, 01:56 PM
Heathasm well i think that its a good idea. if their feelli... May 11 2008, 03:53 PM
yaamakoh reminds me of made of honor.
i'm in the same b... May 11 2008, 04:02 PM
Glamourouz Simply because they're not ready to be in a co... May 11 2008, 07:23 PM
doughnut open relationships.
kind of like saying "let... May 13 2008, 08:43 AM
Megarina99 QUOTE(doughnut @ May 13 2008, 08:43 AM) o... May 13 2008, 01:51 PM
NoSex QUOTE(Megarina99 @ May 13 2008, 01:51 PM)... May 13 2008, 04:11 PM
Megarina99 QUOTE(NoSex @ May 13 2008, 04:11 PM) 1. G... May 13 2008, 04:49 PM
NoSex QUOTE(Megarina99 @ May 13 2008, 04:49 PM)... May 13 2008, 10:40 PM
Megarina99 QUOTE(NoSex @ May 13 2008, 10:40 PM) Just... May 14 2008, 10:14 PM
LoveToMySilas ^ I believe there was a study that said guys cheat... May 13 2008, 06:09 PM
aimeesayswhat Isn't this an open relationship?
anyways I wa... May 13 2008, 09:52 PM
Kay- that's stupid. May 14 2008, 11:35 PM
dpl313 After reading most of these responses. Wow. I... May 18 2008, 11:56 AM![]() ![]() |