Fighting with my best friend. :[, Helllpp!!! Options

[Heartourbeat]

So for about a month now, it seems like my best friend and I are always mad at each other. All of this really started because I broke up with my boyfriend, and I guess she was upset cuz all 3 of us had been hanging out and stuff. Well since she was mad, and I was upset because I broke up with him, I said things I shouldn't of said (not that bad, but I guess she thought it was)

Now it seems like we still haven't gone back to normal. We have said like 3 times that we just werent going to be friends anymore, but then we kinda makeup. After we makeup we just get mad again though...A few days ago we went with a group to the movies and we reall had a good time like we used to, but now we are barely talking again.

I really need us to work things out because she is like the best friend I've ever had, and I trust her with everything.

What should I do to fix this?? I really think this is the last time we argue about this, because we are about to permanately not be friends. :[

[aybaybay007]

do u ever wonder if its worth it being friends with her if shes gonna be such a bitch?
bitches just ruin my day. even if they started out as my best friends

[TiffanyFactorial]

do u ever wonder if its worth it being friends with her if shes gonna be such a bitch?
bitches just ruin my day. even if they started out as my best friends

true, i definitely agree. i've had someone back stab me and i wanted to remain friends but you know what? once a backstabber, always a backstabber.

i'm not really sure i see the reason in her being upset with you just because you & your boyfriend broke up. so you guys may have been bff, did she think he was really good for you or what?

i think that if she doesn't try to make things work, then it's something you shouldn't keep working on...and remember, it takes two people not to talk to each other. if you try to talk to her and she brushes you off, then maybe it's time to back down. true friends will always be there for you, through thick and thin, especially in times like these when you're without your boyfriend. she should be comforting you, not arguing with you.

sometimes the people you think you know, you don't really know at all. it's hard to really trust people, and people change. don't worry too much because i'm sure you'll be friends with her, but not BFF like before. it's better than nothing. it's better to know how she is now than get hurt by her later when you guys start arguing again.

:) hope that helped!