White Guys Hitting on Asian Girls at Asian Parties Options

[Tung]

What an inflammatory subject heading. I'm sure everyone will have lots to say on this. So tell me, what is the deal with white guys who frequent Asian parties hitting on Asian women. I was at a gathering last week for a Happy Hour and this white guy approaches two of my female friends as well as myself, one after another, each sequentially about 10 minutes apart. Extremely persistent and easily offended, he became irate when nobody would give him time of day.

So, what gives? Does he deserve to be treated meanly by Asian women for being the only white guy at an Asian function? Is the fact that he is there indicative of an Asian fetish? Or, are we too harsh to non-Asians at such events in general? I suppose none of the girls would have been so mean to him if he had been just normal and friendly. However, he was very slimy (and not at all attractive incidentally) and appeared to be "on the prowl". Is/was our intolerance some sort of reverse racial discrimination? I must point out however, that if I had been introduced to him through friends at the gathering, I am sure I would not have been the way I was to him. What does everyone think?

[Gigi]

Well you just said it...he was slimy and unattractive. It's not the race, it's probably just him. If he was hot and charming, the girls would, on the contrary, be all over him.