Asians.. Blacks.. the gap??, No offense.. Options

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Before I start let it be said that I'm not trying to be offensive.

For the Asian girls/women on this site has a guy ever called you stuck up or misleading? Just wondering, because I was having this conversation with my cousin, and we talked about characteristics of women of different races. He was saying how Asian women tend to be a little harder to get(relationship wise) and stuck up.

I thought about this for a bit, and I looked back on every experience I've had talking to an Asian girl/woman. Ironically some of the same patterns have happened in most cases. Like at times it'll end up to be they'll be into me slighty. Then it's always some bs excuse as to why they don't want to go any further. It never fails.. The ones I recall most are.. "my parents.. you fill in the blank." Then the one where they go with the other guy who treats them like crap to try to change them.

As my cousin said this.. it really had me thinking would an Asian male/female date a Black male/female, or is it something that wouldn't happen?

I dunno maybe it's because I'm Black, and in my area you don't see Asians and Blacks together. Even when I moved to a few other states I didn't see it either. Then I was thinking how Black people do get stereotyped sometimes by some members of the Asian culture. I had this one incident that sticks out. I was at this Chinese Buffet restaurant, and this Asian teenager kept staring at me like.. What are you doing here?? I guess I'm losing the theme of my point. I'm not looking to be bashed, nor am I looking for someone to say... You're a nice guy.. poor you, etc. I just want the truth.

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that looks like ando!

/edit. anyways gigi's comment on the subject of being "disowned" is not far off from what my parents would do. they're quite close-minded about things although my dad does have an obsession with how wonderful mexicans are. he's always like "omg they work so hard and diligently, the chinese people are too crafty and sneaky" etc etc.

I don't have any issues with race as I live in a generally diverse area and come into contact with all sorts of people. actually, two of my most favorite people on this planet are black AND I LOVE THEM cause they are seriously the chillest people I know. understatement really. they are just so incredibly cool.


and I've totally been attracted to black guys before HAHA. ahh 7th grade, good memories.