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Fighting with my best friend. :[, Helllpp!!!
Heartourbeat
post May 4 2008, 11:27 AM
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So for about a month now, it seems like my best friend and I are always mad at each other. All of this really started because I broke up with my boyfriend, and I guess she was upset cuz all 3 of us had been hanging out and stuff. Well since she was mad, and I was upset because I broke up with him, I said things I shouldn't of said (not that bad, but I guess she thought it was)

Now it seems like we still haven't gone back to normal. We have said like 3 times that we just werent going to be friends anymore, but then we kinda makeup. After we makeup we just get mad again though...A few days ago we went with a group to the movies and we reall had a good time like we used to, but now we are barely talking again.

I really need us to work things out because she is like the best friend I've ever had, and I trust her with everything.

What should I do to fix this?? I really think this is the last time we argue about this, because we are about to permanately not be friends. :[

 
 
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aaayotiffany
post May 4 2008, 04:13 PM
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this reminds me of me and my old best friend. we don't really talk anymore. we still have that bond where i know i can go to her for anything but i can't say we're still the "best of friends". i, too, trusted her with everything. we've been friends for seven years, but when we kind of faded out like we did, i realized that even the "best" friendships you have won't last forever.

one. she's kind immature and wrong for being mad at you for breaking up with your boyfriend. that relationship is between you and him, not the three of you. if she still wants to be friends with him, then she can continue being friends with him, thats between them.

two. if you guys really are best friends and you BOTH truly care about each other and your friendship, you guys will work it out. just talk to each other, spill out your true feelings, tell her everything even if its bad stuff, its the truth. best friends don't beat around the bush.
 

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