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my best friend is his best friend., what to do???
na-nancy
post Apr 26 2008, 08:35 PM
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so yeah, my very best friend is also my boyfriend's best friend as well.
and lately, they've been hanging out together and it's nice to see them to.
i don't get jealous, but i just wonder sometimes...
like he doesn't laugh that way with me like he does to her.
and i always wonder..'what if he ever leaves me for her?' =(
or i never have that much fun with him like they do. =(
i know, i'm being very pessimistic. =(
but whenever i'm with the two of them, sometimes i feel left out when they're
talking or joking around...i really do. It's like sometimes i feel isolated from them.
he's a great guy, like even when i'm with them he always checks with me and asks me everytime, "are you okay?" or give a little shrug or notice that he knows i'm there =)
i never told anyone or them my feeling. but yeah, of course best friends spend times together too, i definitely understand. they're like brother and sister best friends and i definitely have no probelm with that. before dating him he was kinda like that to me too (we were friends since freshmen year - now sophmores)
yeah, but i don't know..i just think and feel like this sometimes...
any advice???

 
 
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post Apr 26 2008, 10:09 PM
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Since you guys are best friends, all three of you I think its just all in your mind.

i just say just have a mature conversation with him.
Tell him whats up, even if this is something small, it can be become something really complicated later on.

He might get mad that you're thinking like that but as long as you get your question answered you won't think like that anymore right?

goodl luck!
 

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na-nancy   my best friend is his best friend.   Apr 26 2008, 08:35 PM
Tungster   3sum.   Apr 26 2008, 08:38 PM
Elba   QUOTE(Tungster @ Apr 26 2008, 06:38 PM) 3...   Apr 27 2008, 12:17 PM
aimeesayswhat   ^ WOW tung she is freakin 15 that would be weridd....   Apr 26 2008, 08:40 PM
na-nancy   QUOTE(aimeesayswhat @ Apr 26 2008, 07:40 ...   Apr 26 2008, 08:44 PM
aimeesayswhat   QUOTE(na-nancy @ Apr 26 2008, 09:44 ...   Apr 26 2008, 09:17 PM
Sandraaa   ^ Good luck doing that.   Apr 26 2008, 08:47 PM
na-nancy   that's complicated. and difficult...=(   Apr 26 2008, 09:33 PM
aimeesayswhat   ^ life is full of choices and all but hey one woul...   Apr 26 2008, 09:48 PM
na-nancy   i don't think i can do that. =( life is full o...   Apr 26 2008, 09:58 PM
Flaunted   Since you guys are best friends, all three of you ...   Apr 26 2008, 10:09 PM
Synesthesia   I think you need to talk to your boyfriend about i...   Apr 26 2008, 10:10 PM
Glamourouz   Yea, I agree with the two that said you should tal...   Apr 26 2008, 10:34 PM
Edwinbarkhordarian   ditch the bf bcuz your just gonna get hurt in the ...   Apr 27 2008, 11:51 AM
na-nancy   i think i might just do that. but i'm just not...   Apr 27 2008, 12:29 PM
Rachel   QUOTE(na-nancy @ Apr 27 2008, 10:29 ...   Apr 27 2008, 12:34 PM
Comptine   ^ I agree talk to BOTH your best friend and boyfri...   Apr 27 2008, 01:14 PM
na-nancy   im not so sure anymore. im wanting to tell him, bu...   Apr 28 2008, 04:21 PM
BLAZINASIAN   I had that same situation. And now he's with h...   Apr 28 2008, 04:43 PM
na-nancy   awwwwwwwwwwwwwww T T no, i'm sorry. that wasn...   Apr 29 2008, 07:17 PM
BLAZINASIAN   Well, lucky you. Saw them kiss yesterday. It was ...   Apr 30 2008, 07:26 PM
na-nancy   i'm definitely feeling better. he kissed me on...   May 2 2008, 04:45 PM


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