my best friend is his best friend., what to do??? |
 Apr 26 2008, 08:35 PM
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 na-nancy  Group: Member Posts: 212 Joined: Jun 2007 Member No: 538,179  |
so yeah, my very best friend is also my boyfriend's best friend as well.
and lately, they've been hanging out together and it's nice to see them to. i don't get jealous, but i just wonder sometimes... like he doesn't laugh that way with me like he does to her. and i always wonder..'what if he ever leaves me for her?' =( or i never have that much fun with him like they do. =( i know, i'm being very pessimistic. =( but whenever i'm with the two of them, sometimes i feel left out when they're talking or joking around...i really do. It's like sometimes i feel isolated from them. he's a great guy, like even when i'm with them he always checks with me and asks me everytime, "are you okay?" or give a little shrug or notice that he knows i'm there =) i never told anyone or them my feeling. but yeah, of course best friends spend times together too, i definitely understand. they're like brother and sister best friends and i definitely have no probelm with that. before dating him he was kinda like that to me too (we were friends since freshmen year - now sophmores) yeah, but i don't know..i just think and feel like this sometimes... any advice??? |
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Apr 26 2008, 08:40 PM
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^ WOW tung she is freakin 15 that would be weridd...hahaha
Do be paranoid about that situation...I wasn't that's how I lost my first bf. f**k best friends they just want to get to your bf. Just don't yell at him for nothing just subtly try to make him not like her |
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Apr 26 2008, 08:44 PM
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na-nancy Group: Member Posts: 212 Joined: Jun 2007 Member No: 538,179 |
QUOTE(aimeesayswhat @ Apr 26 2008, 07:40 PM)  ^ WOW tung she is freakin 15 that would be weridd...hahaha Do be paranoid about that situation...I wasn't that's how I lost my first bf. f**k best friends they just want to get to your bf. Just don't yell at him for nothing just subtly try to make him not like her lmao. ^ but i love her too much to do that! she's like a sister to me! how can i do that to her, i just can't - not even a thought a doing that. i think i'll just try to not be too paranoid about this. even though sometimes i think too much and it starts to hurt me. |
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na-nancy my best friend is his best friend. Apr 26 2008, 08:35 PM
Tungster 3sum. Apr 26 2008, 08:38 PM
Elba QUOTE(Tungster @ Apr 26 2008, 06:38 PM) 3... Apr 27 2008, 12:17 PM aimeesayswhat QUOTE(na-nancy @ Apr 26 2008, 09:44 ... Apr 26 2008, 09:17 PM Sandraaa ^ Good luck doing that. Apr 26 2008, 08:47 PM na-nancy that's complicated.
and difficult...=( Apr 26 2008, 09:33 PM aimeesayswhat ^ life is full of choices and all but hey one woul... Apr 26 2008, 09:48 PM na-nancy i don't think i can do that. =(
life is full o... Apr 26 2008, 09:58 PM Flaunted Since you guys are best friends, all three of you ... Apr 26 2008, 10:09 PM Synesthesia I think you need to talk to your boyfriend about i... Apr 26 2008, 10:10 PM Glamourouz Yea, I agree with the two that said you should tal... Apr 26 2008, 10:34 PM Edwinbarkhordarian ditch the bf bcuz your just gonna get hurt in the ... Apr 27 2008, 11:51 AM na-nancy i think i might just do that.
but i'm just not... Apr 27 2008, 12:29 PM Rachel QUOTE(na-nancy @ Apr 27 2008, 10:29 ... Apr 27 2008, 12:34 PM Comptine ^ I agree talk to BOTH your best friend and boyfri... Apr 27 2008, 01:14 PM na-nancy im not so sure anymore.
im wanting to tell him, bu... Apr 28 2008, 04:21 PM BLAZINASIAN I had that same situation. And now he's with h... Apr 28 2008, 04:43 PM na-nancy awwwwwwwwwwwwwww T T
no, i'm sorry. that wasn... Apr 29 2008, 07:17 PM BLAZINASIAN Well, lucky you.
Saw them kiss yesterday. It was ... Apr 30 2008, 07:26 PM na-nancy i'm definitely feeling better.
he kissed me on... May 2 2008, 04:45 PM |
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