scared of..., relationships? commitment? |
scared of..., relationships? commitment? |
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![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 122 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 199 ![]() |
hey guys i was just thinking from a different topic i just saw... and i have a question..
i think im scared of either a relationship or a commitment. anyone else have this problem? i just had such a bad experience and a horrible falling-out of the relationship that im so scared that if i try to get into another one, it'll just depress me again. what do u all think? |
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![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 238 Joined: Apr 2008 Member No: 639,827 ![]() |
to be honest, i don't know what's wrong with me. i think the longest relationship i have ever been in was 3 months...and i was seven then. now that i'm 16 i have relationships, but they only last about a week. not even two. and it's not that i'm not committed or i'm just unfit, it's just that things keep coming up. either he falls in love with me and i don't love him back and we break up. or he moves and we deceid to split because i don't like long distanced relationships. or he's too old and his parents don't approve...it just never works out. the best relationships that i have ever had were the ones that were un official. like, i like u and u like me, but i'm not going to ask u out. we just kinda claim each other. so techinally i was with one guy for 11 months and 29 days and with the other for seven months, some days, and counting. hey it's complicated, i know. but who said life wasn't?
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