HELP!! WHY, I KINDA MESSED UP Options

[jerk112]

So I have a girlfriend we have been going out for about 3 weeks now well this weekend i had sex with another girl it just kinda happened i think i might be a sex addict if i don't like every 1-2 months at least i kinda like have to call a friend well anyway we did this and i didn't feel bad at all no remorse or guilt afterwards nothing still like it was just sex to me nothing else i don't like the girl i mean shes pretty but thats it and i was wondering if this is weird i didn't tell my girlfriend and probably not going to i just was wondering why i don't care ?? any suggestions also her birthday is coming up and i want to get her a hoodie but i don't know what size she is like 5'6 normal weight for a girl not fat but not anorexic skinny any ideas??

[jerk112]

Well what id like to know is there anyone who has done the same thing i mean it was wrong but it was still only 3 weeks not 3 months 3 weeks and it wasn't like i expected it to happen I was just out with a buddy one night and we invited some girls over and well we all got trashed and stoned out of are minds and i woke up beside this girl no clothes....... First time this has ever happened to me i new the girl and everything and she was kol and said no big that she does birth control so i guess i kinda set myself up for this to happen but idk

[Just_Dream]

First time this has ever happened to me i new the girl and everything and she was kol and said no big that she does birth control

Dude, even though this is the first time that this kind of incident happened, you need to consider your original post. You need to have sex at least once a month?

i think i might be a sex addict if i don't like every 1-2 months at least i kinda like have to call a friend

WTF so before this incident, you had sex with another girl behind her back too? Eh?!

Anyways, if having sex with some other chick makes you appreciate her more, then you are one fucked up guy.

Also, the only thing I've ever done that might even be considered cheating is probably dancing with another guy. Of course I told my bf that but he said he doesn't like me doing that too much, but my boyfriend doesn't really like to dance. Eh. But I tell him all the time and I've only danced with guys that my bf knows (except one other guy, but he was chill and I told Tony about it anyway). Usually he's okay with it. Of course my situation is difference because I'd never do something so horrible like you would (even if it's just an accident -- you admitted that you set yourself up for it).

I feel so sorry for her. I concur with synkro - tell her so she can break up with you.