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Emotional Cheating
LoveToMySilas
post Apr 9 2008, 06:26 PM
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One person describes it as,
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Often worse than physically cheating as love isn't about physical closeness but emotional closeness.
There was an article about it in Seventeen magazine that said:

-If you're more excited when your "crush" IMs/texts you than when your boyfriend/girlfriend does.
-You talk to them on a daily basis whether it be via online, phone or in real life.
-You tell them just about everything.
-Being "friendly" without physically having to touch them.

Have you guys ever emotionally cheated?
 
 
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NoSex
post Apr 10 2008, 07:33 PM
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The western ideal of romance is so unrealistic and oppressive. That a single person could entirely fulfill another's intellectual, sexual, and emotional satisfaction is absurd. By suggesting that even the mere emotional outlets one has from a relationship constitutes cheating is inflammatory bullshit.

If people weren't so stupid, insecure, and superstitious, maybe this bullshit could end. But, instead, they write this sort of shit in teen magazines and suddenly... if he isn't talking to you, he's cheating and hates your guts. Psychic death, anyone?
 
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post Apr 19 2008, 04:42 PM
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QUOTE(NoSex @ Apr 10 2008, 08:33 PM) *
The western ideal of romance is so unrealistic and oppressive. That a single person could entirely fulfill another's intellectual, sexual, and emotional satisfaction is absurd. By suggesting that even the mere emotional outlets one has from a relationship constitutes cheating is inflammatory bullshit.

If people weren't so stupid, insecure, and superstitious, maybe this bullshit could end. But, instead, they write this sort of shit in teen magazines and suddenly... if he isn't talking to you, he's cheating and hates your guts. Psychic death, anyone?

blink.gif clap.gif I fully agree.
 

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LoveToMySilas   Emotional Cheating   Apr 9 2008, 06:26 PM
Tungster   Honestly, almost alot of the time. I might not be ...   Apr 9 2008, 06:28 PM
recycle   I remember reading this article in seventeen! ...   Apr 9 2008, 06:30 PM
LoveToMySilas   QUOTE(recycle @ Apr 9 2008, 07:30 PM) I r...   Apr 9 2008, 06:40 PM
vintage-toile   QUOTE(LoveToMySilas @ Apr 10 2008, 12:40 ...   Apr 9 2008, 06:42 PM
vintage-toile   everyone fancies other people in relationships at ...   Apr 9 2008, 06:31 PM
Tamacracker   No... and if you're emotionally cheating, then...   Apr 9 2008, 06:40 PM
sparrowdust   QUOTE(Tamacracker @ Apr 9 2008, 06:40 PM)...   Apr 19 2008, 12:22 AM
NoSex   QUOTE(sparrowdust @ Apr 19 2008, 12:22 AM...   Apr 19 2008, 04:23 AM
sparrowdust   QUOTE(NoSex @ Apr 19 2008, 04:23 AM) So, ...   Apr 19 2008, 03:42 PM
NoSex   QUOTE(sparrowdust @ Apr 19 2008, 03:42 PM...   Apr 19 2008, 04:16 PM
LoveToMySilas   Emotional cheating because even though its nothing...   Apr 9 2008, 06:45 PM
vintage-toile   this really is confusing me. so i will explain: wi...   Apr 9 2008, 06:50 PM
Tamacracker   It's simple sweety.... if a person who isn...   Apr 9 2008, 06:53 PM
vintage-toile   sweety? was that meant in a patronising "shes...   Apr 9 2008, 06:59 PM
Tamacracker   QUOTE(vintage-toile @ Apr 9 2008, 07...   Apr 9 2008, 07:04 PM
Tungster   ^ offtopic here, but I wished you typed in normal ...   Apr 9 2008, 07:02 PM
vintage-toile   QUOTE(Tungster @ Apr 10 2008, 01:02 AM) ^...   Apr 9 2008, 07:06 PM
Flaunted   Only thing that can remotely relate is my closest ...   Apr 9 2008, 07:08 PM
mizzkewl06   yes, but not intentionally (and not with my curren...   Apr 9 2008, 07:56 PM
PrIncEoFSeXaPpeAL   QUOTE(LoveToMySilas @ Apr 9 2008, 07:26 P...   Apr 9 2008, 09:11 PM
Stefanny   duh.   Apr 9 2008, 09:27 PM
Kayc05   I've emotionally cheated & I guess I do it...   Apr 9 2008, 10:34 PM
NoSex   The western ideal of romance is so unrealistic and...   Apr 10 2008, 07:33 PM
illmortal   QUOTE(NoSex @ Apr 10 2008, 08:33 PM) The ...   Apr 19 2008, 04:42 PM
misoshiru   QUOTE(NoSex @ Apr 11 2008, 08:33 AM) The ...   Apr 19 2008, 05:20 PM
illmortal   QUOTE(misoshiru @ Apr 19 2008, 06:20 PM) ...   Apr 19 2008, 06:23 PM
NoSex   QUOTE(misoshiru @ Apr 19 2008, 05:20 PM) ...   Apr 20 2008, 12:13 AM
illmortal   QUOTE(NoSex @ Apr 20 2008, 01:13 AM) I...   Apr 20 2008, 12:36 AM
JuggaloSKfan   I wouldn't say i have Emotionally Cheated, but...   Apr 19 2008, 12:13 AM
aimeesayswhat   QUOTE(JuggaloSKfan @ Apr 19 2008, 01:13 A...   Apr 19 2008, 04:01 PM
doughnut   nope it's horrible for the person that's ...   Apr 19 2008, 06:34 AM
pandora   Well I would consider emotional cheating like... t...   Apr 19 2008, 06:32 PM
synkro   ^ how's that been working out for you? i...   Apr 20 2008, 12:21 AM
NoSex   QUOTE(synkro @ Apr 20 2008, 12:21 AM) ^ h...   Apr 20 2008, 10:41 AM
synkro   QUOTE(NoSex @ Apr 20 2008, 07:41 AM) I ha...   Apr 20 2008, 01:28 PM
Tweeti   most of that is just flirting, but if it's to ...   Apr 20 2008, 09:05 AM
superstitious   I guess I would have to say no, I haven't ...   Apr 20 2008, 10:54 AM
ersatz   I think I'm emotionally cheating right now, bu...   Apr 20 2008, 10:27 PM
BLAZINASIAN   I am a strict follower of the rules of Seventeen m...   Apr 20 2008, 10:47 PM
illmortal   You guys shouldn't depend on a magazine for gu...   Apr 21 2008, 11:25 AM
Tweeti   QUOTE(illmortal @ Apr 21 2008, 11:25 AM) ...   Apr 21 2008, 02:16 PM
illmortal   QUOTE(Tweeti @ Apr 21 2008, 03:16 PM) ......   Apr 21 2008, 02:26 PM
NoSex   QUOTE(synkro @ Apr 20 2008, 01:28 PM) so ...   Apr 21 2008, 07:08 PM
Joss-eh-lime   nahh its not "cheating" b/c they are jus...   Apr 21 2008, 10:53 PM


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