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Melissa
post Apr 15 2008, 01:00 PM
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We just learned in my psych class that men fall in love quicker than women, and women fall out of love quicker than men.

This surprised me.

Do you notice this ever?
 
 
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Melissa
post Apr 15 2008, 03:16 PM
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We propose a two-part generalization about sex differences in entering into and giving up romantic attachments: (1) Men tend to fall in love more readily than women; (2) women tend to fall out of love more readily than men. Evidence in support of these generalizations is derived from a longitudinal study of 231 college student dating couples. The data suggest that women are more cautious than men about entering into romantic relationships, more likely to compare these relationships to alternatives, more likely to end a relationship that seems ill fated, and better able to cope with rejection.


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post Apr 16 2008, 09:50 AM
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QUOTE(heartquasm @ Apr 15 2008, 01:16 PM) *
The data suggest that women are more cautious than men about entering into romantic relationships, more likely to compare these relationships to alternatives, more likely to end a relationship that seems ill fated, and better able to cope with rejection.


This seems very plausible to me. Several women, not generalizing to all the women, are very cautious about entering relationships because they always have their past relationships at the back of their head. What if this won't work, or what if there's someone better, or what if I'm not ready to settle down? Several men, on the other hand, skip into several different relationships after one crashes and burns. Though a lot of my male friends spent a ridiculous amount of time mourning after their lost girlfriend.

Although, there are some women who find it difficult to cope with the loss of a male significant other, as well. So like its been reiterated in this thread, it all varies on the type of person they are. But I do generally agree with what your psychology text book says.
 

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heartquasm   Men fall in love quicker...   Apr 15 2008, 01:00 PM
marielamuneka   Noooo I dont think men fall in love quicker.. well...   Apr 15 2008, 01:37 PM
Kayc05   I beg to differ; I really believe it's the oth...   Apr 15 2008, 03:10 PM
marielamuneka   QUOTE; usually the female & then they act stup...   Apr 15 2008, 03:15 PM
heartquasm   QUOTEWe propose a two-part generalization about se...   Apr 15 2008, 03:16 PM
Reconditee   QUOTE(heartquasm @ Apr 15 2008, 01:16 PM)...   Apr 16 2008, 09:50 AM
illmortal   QUOTE(heartquasm @ Apr 15 2008, 02:00 PM)...   Apr 15 2008, 03:31 PM
marielamuneka   QUOTE(illmortal @ Apr 15 2008, 04:31 PM) ...   Apr 15 2008, 04:02 PM
heartquasm   QUOTEThe data suggest that women are more cautious...   Apr 15 2008, 03:37 PM
illmortal   QUOTE(heartquasm @ Apr 15 2008, 04:37 PM)...   Apr 15 2008, 03:49 PM
heartquasm   There's a pretty big discrepancy as to what lo...   Apr 15 2008, 03:54 PM
illmortal   QUOTE(heartquasm @ Apr 15 2008, 04:54 PM)...   Apr 15 2008, 03:58 PM
LoveToMySilas   Hmm, in a way I kind of agree with that. Guys don...   Apr 15 2008, 04:45 PM
illmortal   Heh.. it's funny cuz I've only experienced...   Apr 15 2008, 04:49 PM
mizzkewl06   QUOTE(heartquasm @ Apr 15 2008, 02:00 PM)...   Apr 15 2008, 05:43 PM
illmortal   Yeah but there's too many variables... too man...   Apr 15 2008, 05:54 PM
karmakiller   I think girls fall out of love pretty fast. I see ...   Apr 15 2008, 06:24 PM
illmortal   QUOTE(karmakiller @ Apr 15 2008, 07:24 PM...   Apr 15 2008, 06:28 PM
marielamuneka   QUOTEI think girls fall out of love pretty fast. I...   Apr 15 2008, 06:35 PM
illmortal   QUOTE(marielamuneka @ Apr 15 2008, 07:35 ...   Apr 15 2008, 06:38 PM
karmakiller   Lol, a whole world survey. It will only take years...   Apr 15 2008, 06:43 PM
marielamuneka   QUOTE(karmakiller @ Apr 15 2008, 07:43 PM...   Apr 15 2008, 06:47 PM
heartquasm   Tama: Why don't you read more articles about i...   Apr 15 2008, 06:59 PM
marielamuneka   QUOTEAnd of course it varies from person to person...   Apr 15 2008, 07:02 PM
illmortal   Because... your claim is too far-fetch.. or not yo...   Apr 15 2008, 07:08 PM
heartquasm   QUOTE(illmortal @ Apr 15 2008, 08:08 PM) ...   Apr 15 2008, 07:50 PM
illmortal   QUOTE(heartquasm @ Apr 15 2008, 08:50 PM)...   Apr 15 2008, 07:59 PM
mizzkewl06   hmm... just because you're out doing stuff wit...   Apr 15 2008, 07:32 PM
marielamuneka   QUOTEhmm... just because you're out doing stuf...   Apr 15 2008, 07:44 PM
heartquasm   win! jk. I get what you're saying, I ...   Apr 15 2008, 08:07 PM
aimeesayswhat   I might actually agree with this. So many of my gu...   Apr 15 2008, 09:53 PM
superstitious   Oh I'm not sure about that. From what I'v...   Apr 15 2008, 09:59 PM
aimeesayswhat   ^Not being mean or anything but I agree.   Apr 15 2008, 10:12 PM
aaayotiffany   with the people i know, i've always known for ...   Apr 15 2008, 10:19 PM
JuggaloSKfan   I've only fallen in love once, I am still youn...   Apr 15 2008, 11:37 PM
Joss-eh-lime   yeah i have noticed this but it depends on what k...   Apr 16 2008, 01:13 AM
cmac   Hmm, "----" I wouldn't exactly say g...   Aug 31 2008, 12:20 AM
towntown2   I can't speak for other girls and boys on this...   Aug 31 2008, 10:15 PM
doughnut   i've read or heard somewhere that when a guy l...   Sep 1 2008, 09:39 AM
hi-C   I can definitely believe the findings. My (ex-)bo...   Sep 1 2008, 11:40 AM


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