Oral Sex? Is it wrong for me to not give head? |
 Apr 15 2008, 09:59 PM
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In my personal opinion, I really don't want to give head/oral sex to ANY guy. I think it's disgusting but no offense to other girls who do it. I just don't like, I don't want to do it, and i've been with my boyfriend for 10 months already and we've talked about this. He said he understands me and that he respects me far too much to ever let me do that. But some people and "friends" pressure me to do it. And just the other day this guy told me "All girls will blow a guy. You'll do it someday." It made me feel really uncomfortable and the thought of myself ever doing it is even more uncomfortable. I don't know what to do. I just don't like and I also want to know if there's older girls out there from ages 19 and up to tell me if they don't like it either. I need to know if i'm alone on this.
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Apr 15 2008, 10:37 PM
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 DDR \\ I'm Dee :) Group: Mentor Posts: 8,662 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 384,020 |
Honestly, I think you're smart for not doing anything like that, esspecially at you're age. You're mature and above all, you've stuck to what you believe in. I'm not too sure how you feel pressure from your friends, but I remember when I was your age and girls were doing things like that. I wasn't. And now that years have passed, a lot of them regret some of the things they've done. You seem very mature and very aware of yourself. You've found a guy who isn't pressuring you... I think it would be harder for you if he was the source of this pressure. Just stick to your guns, and never be ashamed of what you believe and what you haven't done.
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Apr 15 2008, 10:54 PM
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QUOTE(karmakiller @ Apr 15 2008, 10:37 PM)  Honestly, I think you're smart for not doing anything like that, esspecially at you're age. You're mature and above all, you've stuck to what you believe in. I'm not too sure how you feel pressure from your friends, but I remember when I was your age and girls were doing things like that. I wasn't. And now that years have passed, a lot of them regret some of the things they've done. You seem very mature and very aware of yourself. You've found a guy who isn't pressuring you... I think it would be harder for you if he was the source of this pressure. Just stick to your guns, and never be ashamed of what you believe and what you haven't done. I know someone understands me and believes in what I say.  Thank you.
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