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 Apr 15 2008, 06:29 PM
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 drama is so intising i might just bite a mothaf**ka like tyson  Group: Member Posts: 266 Joined: Mar 2008 Member No: 636,361  |
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Okay my Ex(21yrs old) and me(17yrs old) knew each other from our families..ever since i was like 11 years old. We started goin out when i was almost 13 i about 12 1/2 I went out with him up until i was about 16 years old and then i broke it off with him for good. Ill be 18 in 3 months now, and im in a relationship with a guy thats one year younger than me and we've been together for almost 7 months..and im in love with him so im not trying to get back with my ex..but yeah my ex keeps bothering my cousin(boy) to talk to me about talking to him(my ex) and keeps bothering me as well.. he wants to get back with me he supposidly "loves me still"  there was NO love between him and i; i was just young and loved the companionship we were together in "relationship" but he cheated on me with girls and got them pregnant throughout our relationship so when i got older i was like f**k you, i need someone who will care enough about me to be faithful..so basically i broke up with him when i turned 16 because i got older, so did he, you know people change and feelings change as time go on but its almost been 2 years and every few months he starts bothering me and its annoying. i have no feelings towards him whatsoever but my question is why; why do guys keep trying to get back with a girl when they obviously didnt care enough about them at that time to realize what they had? why do guys keep tryig when theres no point. he KNOWS im in a relationship now and that makes him crazier.. ?? wtf ?? I know he doesnt love me because he is actually married now and has like 5 kids i think.. he doesnt take care of them really and hes on drugs now hes a mess and im the one that got him off of drugs when we first met i just dont understand that.. he needs to hop off foreal  so has anyone experienced this? |
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Apr 15 2008, 06:49 PM
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Uh no... if there's a reason to break up, whether it's my fault (never), or her fault, there's no point in gettin back together. Gettin back together can only help repeat history and cause more problems later on. Just not worth it.
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Apr 15 2008, 06:52 PM
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drama is so intising i might just bite a mothaf**ka like tyson Group: Member Posts: 266 Joined: Mar 2008 Member No: 636,361 |
QUOTE(illmortal @ Apr 15 2008, 07:49 PM)  Uh no... if there's a reason to break up, whether it's my fault (never), or her fault, there's no point in gettin back together. Gettin back together can only help repeat history and cause more problems later on. Just not worth it. If you break up obviously its for a reason and you shouldnt get back together. I keep telling my cousin to tell him that, and he doesnt listen.  getting back together is pointless people should just move on. 
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Apr 15 2008, 06:53 PM
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Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 6,349 Joined: Aug 2006 Member No: 455,274 |
QUOTE(marielamuneka @ Apr 15 2008, 07:52 PM) If you break up obviously its for a reason and you shouldnt get back together. I keep telling my cousin to tell him that, and he doesnt listen. getting back together is pointless people should just move on. It would save lives and heartaches, that's for damn sure. |
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Apr 15 2008, 06:56 PM
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drama is so intising i might just bite a mothaf**ka like tyson Group: Member Posts: 266 Joined: Mar 2008 Member No: 636,361 |
Yeah i mean if you get back together with someone you are bound to just go back around in circles.. its really dumb. Im glad i left that dude when i did. 
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Apr 15 2008, 07:15 PM
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Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 6,349 Joined: Aug 2006 Member No: 455,274 |
QUOTE(marielamuneka @ Apr 15 2008, 07:56 PM) Yeah i mean if you get back together with someone you are bound to just go back around in circles.. its really dumb. Im glad i left that dude when i did. There's definitely a difference between males. Some are men... some are boys, regardless of their age. |
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marielamuneka Why? Apr 15 2008, 06:29 PM
marielamuneka ^ The breakup just went like this:
I was in his h... Apr 15 2008, 06:43 PM
Sandraaa Wtf? He hit you? What a jerk. Apr 19 2008, 07:25 PM marielamuneka Yeah hes spanish and has a temper he used to hit m... Apr 19 2008, 07:27 PM Sandraaa My boyfriend is Spanish too. He'll never hit m... Apr 19 2008, 07:31 PM marielamuneka This one was dominican. lol extra tempered. nah bu... Apr 19 2008, 07:37 PM Sandraaa Latino, not Spanish. Apr 19 2008, 07:40 PM marielamuneka Well latino people here just call it spanish too..... Apr 19 2008, 07:47 PM eeonz QUOTEwhy; why do guys keep trying to get back with... Apr 20 2008, 05:24 AM
Tweeti what an a-hole, i'm sorry you had to go throug... Apr 20 2008, 09:00 AM |
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