Girl want sex but i say no.. Options

[Tung]

so if a girl say she want to do it.. im down with everything except the intercourse.. even i have condom on.. i still aint gonna do it.. i tell her its too risky..

am i mean or selfish here../ cuz im still young and if she get pregnant.. then....

if she get pregnant i aint gonna make her get an abortion.. i'll keep the baby.. but if i say no to her.. am i mean or selfish../

[Rachel]

If you are worried about getting her pregnant, have her go on birth control (while still using a condom). Some insurance companies only charge like $10 a month for it. That's a lot cheaper than a kid.


But still, it's not selfish of you. I wouldn't want no baby and it's kinda cute that you are scared of that shit. For once, a boy is thinking with his brain and not his p33n.

[rnicron]

If you are worried about getting her pregnant, have her go on birth control (while still using a condom). Some insurance companies only charge like $10 a month for it. That's a lot cheaper than a kid.

Ah, my girlfriend just talked her mom into the pill, but said the reason for it was just because she had killer periods.

[Melissa]

no glove = baby love
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unless you're on the pill, i guess, but still. it's not really a guarantee for safety.

Ah, my girlfriend just talked her mom into the pill, but said the reason for it was just because she had killer periods.

lol, the pill helps a lot for bad periods. lighter flow, less cramps = all a plus, imo.

[rnicron]

lol, the pill helps a lot for bad periods. lighter flow, less cramps = all a plus, imo.

Her mom was the one that suggested it, but we've talked about it before. She's only 17 so I don't think she could have gotten it herself, even though her mom didn't go to the doctor with her. Idk. Anyway, her mom said that because she has it doesn't mean things could start happening. I really wanted to be there to say "too late".