Boyfriend's female BFF, =/ Options

[Melissa]

Ok, just to set things straight, the guy in question isnt my boyfriend, never was my boyfriend, and never will be my boyfriend. I did like him a bit at one point in time, but whatever was between us pretty much fizzled out.

The thing that bugs me is that during that time period when things between us were pretty tense, I had a conversation about him with his best friend (who's female) online and she said something that really bothered me. I had gotten to know her the previous semester and consider her a pretty good friend of mine as well; she apparently has some history with this guy that I really don't want to get into right now. But here's how the conversation went:

Her: If he ever has babies, I'm gonna shake them.
Me: DON'T BE SHAKING MY BABIES, HO!
Me: lol
Her: Hm, actually, nvm
Her: If he had babies with you, I wouldn't need to shake them.
Her: bc I know the first thing you'll teach them is that I'll always be number one in his life.
Me: Wait... so you think you'd be more important to him than his future kids. Srsly?
Her: Yes.
Me: You'd be more important to him than his girlfriend and/or future wife?
Her: Uh, duh. I've always come first. Girlfriends come and go, but I've always been there, so I'll always be number one.


At the time, I kind of laughed it off, but seriously... I think that's kind of messed up. I guess she does a good job chasing off all his potential girlfriends. And, come to think of it, after that conversation, I started liking him a lot less than I did.

Opinions?

[Melissa]

to say that would be to assume you had some to begin with...

[illriginal]

to say that would be to assume you had some to begin with...

Yeah but look at what you posted, it's the equivalent of negative brain cells.

[Melissa]

Yeah but look at what you posted, it's the equivalent of negative brain cells.

You wanna explain?

I really don't have a problem with you at all, but if you're about to call me stupid...

[illriginal]

You wanna explain?

I really don't have a problem with you at all, but if you're about to call me stupid...

I mean it's nothin serious. I'm not tryin to call you stupid. I'm tryin to say this is a no-brainer. Obviously that girl's a moron and that's how you should have looked at it, instead of askin for opinions on the issue at hand.

Just forget it ever happened and ignore that retarded female.
Like someone for them... and them only. Don't use their friends, their families, especially not their exes, not even their religion/belief system as a way to back away from them.