Boyfriend's female BFF, =/ Options

[Melissa]

Ok, just to set things straight, the guy in question isnt my boyfriend, never was my boyfriend, and never will be my boyfriend. I did like him a bit at one point in time, but whatever was between us pretty much fizzled out.

The thing that bugs me is that during that time period when things between us were pretty tense, I had a conversation about him with his best friend (who's female) online and she said something that really bothered me. I had gotten to know her the previous semester and consider her a pretty good friend of mine as well; she apparently has some history with this guy that I really don't want to get into right now. But here's how the conversation went:

Her: If he ever has babies, I'm gonna shake them.
Me: DON'T BE SHAKING MY BABIES, HO!
Me: lol
Her: Hm, actually, nvm
Her: If he had babies with you, I wouldn't need to shake them.
Her: bc I know the first thing you'll teach them is that I'll always be number one in his life.
Me: Wait... so you think you'd be more important to him than his future kids. Srsly?
Her: Yes.
Me: You'd be more important to him than his girlfriend and/or future wife?
Her: Uh, duh. I've always come first. Girlfriends come and go, but I've always been there, so I'll always be number one.


At the time, I kind of laughed it off, but seriously... I think that's kind of messed up. I guess she does a good job chasing off all his potential girlfriends. And, come to think of it, after that conversation, I started liking him a lot less than I did.

Opinions?

[aaayotiffany]

i know a handful of guys that chose their girlfriends over their girl best friends. very few [and i emphasize on the very] that i know chose their best friends over the girlfriend. the guy can tell the best friend whatever he wants, but when it comes down to it, if the guy really cares about the girl he's talking to and think that she's something special, he will choose the girlfriend over the best friend. i know this for a fact.

it is pretty messed up though. especially when you become good friends with his best friend and she knows that you really like him. dang, what a b*tch move.