Cry if I died?, Our conversation... Options

[Just_Dream]

I often feel like my boyfriend, Tony, is slipping away. He doesn't seem to be liking any other girl, but I feel like all he cares about are cars. That he doesn't have time to think about me... Yesterday, i was talking to him at lunch time..

It goes something like this...

Christina: If I died, would you cry?
Tony: No
Christina: Really? Not even a tear?
Tony: I'll be sad, but probably not cry. I'm not that kind of guy. I wouldn't mourn. I'd be really sad though.
Christina: Really? I see... You don't love me enough to cry, huh?
Tony: I wouldn't cry if my parents died. I'd be sad but that's about it. I wouldn't feel like crying.
Christina: Meaning you dn't love me enough to cry.
Tony: ... Would you cry for me?
Christina: Of course I would. I'd even cry if we broke up. You know I would. I'd cry day and night because I'd miss you too much.
Tony: Aww... I love you.
Christina: ... But... what about if you crashed your car?
Tony: Hell yea I'd cry! I'd mourn my smashed car too.
Christina: I knew cars would always be first place...
Tony: ...
Christina: *teardrop* You once did cry for me... Not anymore.. *teardrop*
Tony: aww...

Today... (ewnt SOMETHING like this)

Christina: Really, what we talked about yesterday, you'd never cry for me?
Tony: Well okay, maybe a little but I wouldn't really mourn. Or maybe I'd mourn a little but not cry.
Christina: Oh okay... I see... And yet you'd cry so much and mourn for your car...
Tony: ...
Christina: ... I Love You. *hug*
Tony: I love you more so there.
Christina: Morest and mostest.

I don't know what's going on... =(

What does it mean? I really do care alot about him, I do love him (yews I do =P). I don't know what to think about anymore...

[illriginal]

How are you gonna ask, "you don't love me enough to cry about my death"? You do realize there's people out there that actually praise someone's death because they've entered a new realm, they've left the physical plain and entered a spiritual one. You shouldn't be upset because he told you he doesn't cry over death.


Last person I cried for when they died was my cousin, I've lost a few friends and family members after him but I didn't cry for them, doesn't mean I'm cold hearted, just means I accept death as part of life. I don't let death bother me nor should it bother anyone else. We're not immortal.

[Just_Dream]

How are you gonna ask, "you don't love me enough to cry about my death"? You do realize there's people out there that actually praise someone's death because they've entered a new realm, they've left the physical plain and entered a spiritual one. You shouldn't be upset because he told you he doesn't cry over death.
Last person I cried for when they died was my cousin, I've lost a few friends and family members after him but I didn't cry for them, doesn't mean I'm cold hearted, just means I accept death as part of life. I don't let death bother me nor should it bother anyone else. We're not immortal.

You do realize that I posted this shit almost 4 years ago, right? I was naive though, I admit. Well my boyfriend has changed his mind anyway, as I've bought this up before. He's broken down his emotional barrier shortly after this thread was made anyway, so we're cool. I totally understand that we're not immortal, but I'd like to know that at least he'd be sad that I'm gone. Are you saying that if I was hit by a car and died, that he should be happy? There's different kinds of deaths, but they all lead to the same outcome.

Plus, I'm not into that spiritual stuff, so I'd rather not get into that. I still totally understand where your coming from, but my values are different from yours.

Anyways, wtf Tung stop bumping my topics, lol.

And at least I won't pretend to tell people that I died just for people to cry for me, or tell people that my sister died. But that's sweet of you two, JC and Yanlin, if you guys really mean that.