girlfriend's cheating on me, and its soo obvious Options

[Dabme]

yup. she did everything she could to keep us together. she constantly asks me if i trust her and she constantly gets angry over the dumbest things. im not sure what to do at this point, im practically brain washed by her promises. so should i just let go or try to talk to her. keep in mind she has a nonnegotiable attitude. and yet im so attached.
sigh... a little help please...

[Heathasm]

Listen... you're gonna go through about 30 girlfriends before you find the perfect girl. If you're lucky, you'll find her within the first 10 girls you ever dated or less. If a person stresses you out, makes you upset, makes you negative in any sort of way... repeatedly, then walk the heck away. It's not worthy, trust me.

the thing is, its really hard to walk away from a relationship when it turns sort of sour like that. if you put alot of work and time into something. even if you really want to end it, its hard to let go because there is always that "what if"

my suggestion would be to find some solid facts that you can back up if she is cheating on you, and talk to her about it. but i guess if her attitude doesnt change from any of that u might just not be meant to be and get her opinion on the matter

[illriginal]

the thing is, its really hard to walk away from a relationship when it turns sort of sour like that. if you put alot of work and time into something. even if you really want to end it, its hard to let go because there is always that "what if"

my suggestion would be to find some solid facts that you can back up if she is cheating on you, and talk to her about it. but i guess if her attitude doesnt change from any of that u might just not be meant to be and get her opinion on the matter

And all of that could be avoided if people could just stop rushing into things, get to know each other... hell get to know yourselves first then get into a relationship. Knowledge of self and the one you like is more powerful in a relationship than any other element in the relationship.

I swear to you the two years (almost) that I have been with my lady, we have NOT fought ONCE. Never ever have we been sour... never ever have we gotten into the smallest argument. Our relationship is gorgeous, elegant, superb... I can't even explain it. But what I can say is... a beautiful relationship starts with knowledge, knowledge of self and significant other, without it.... it's like getting into a relationship blindfully... not knowing what type of person they can become later on... not knowing if they're playing you, or playin mind games.