Ex-boyfriend. Options

[pinacoolada]

We broke up about 8 months ago. A month after we broke up, we were sorta complicated...cause we still had feelings for each other.
This went on till February. During this time and the time we dated, we grew really close and realized that we have a lot in common and that we understand each other more than anyone else can.

My ex-boyfriend soon became my best friend, and occassionally, we were more than that. But that ended about 2 months ago. The "more than friends thing". We had a lot of fights, didn't talk for days, but somehow, we just can't get away, and we keep coming back. We're still best friends as of today.

He told me 2 weeks ago that he doesn't have feelings for me that way anymore. Nothing really changed between us. Except the lack of physical contact. We still hang out alone and talk on the phone every night.
I obviously still have feelings for him. Which is not good right? Right. The obvious solution would be to get over him right? Yeah. I guess...

Well here's the problem. In order for that to happen, I'll have to stop talking to him. Completely. That's gonna be really hard for both of us. We're really dependent on each other, and our friendship means so much to me. I know it means a lot to him too.

So yeah. I don't know what to do. I'm stuck. If there are other ways to go about doing things, please don't hesistate to share. I'm completely lost. I don't wanna lose my best friend. I'd miss it too much. He's so...cute..XD We share a locker and everyday, he leaves me notes and stuff. Ughhhh.

Thanks.

[Melie]

another idea is to get your own locker. why share when all it'll do to you is have you think about him again. and what if you found a note addressed to him from another girl in there? you don't need to make it harder on yourself to get over him. you spend more time away from each other, you'll be able to have great conversations on the phone and it'll make those feelings start to go away and allow you to see others.