Pregnant 4 times, at age 16. Options

[carolannexbh]

I have a friend (Jackie) at school whom I've met at the beginning of the year. She seemed pretty nice and didnt seem too different than any of us. But she recently told me that she has been pregnant 4 times and after she found out, she would call her friends and they would all drink heavily until the baby died. She also said that she would "accidently fall down stairs" as well. My other friend CC has been with her when she's done this, and says its nothing more than a ton of hard liquor, throwing up, and falling a lot.

My question: If you were at such a young age and got pregnant, what would you do?

[misoshiru]

well it's not like you can ever have a womb. everyone has different opinions. don't go blasting shit about how someone is the devil if their beliefs are different than yours. how come you're not talking shit about me since i find fetuses parasites huh?

[illriginal]

well it's not like you can ever have a womb. everyone has different opinions. don't go blasting shit about how someone is the devil if their beliefs are different than yours. how come you're not talking shit about me since i find fetuses parasites huh?

Because that's an analogy. But in a sense is true at that specific stage. But still... it was willed to be born. Whether it's a mistake or not... it was meant to be, people should be responsible for their actions. If we all "aborted" our responsibilities this world would be f**ked beyond belief long ago. Which sadly is goin that direction anyways =\

paper.. you don't have to agree with shit that I have to say. But the fact that you said, "abortion isn't murder, it isn't alive yet" only makes you lose creditability and my respect, for whatever that's worth.

[LizzieDeeCeex3]

Because that's an analogy. But in a sense is true at that specific stage. But still... it was willed to be born. Whether it's a mistake or not... it was meant to be, people should be responsible for their actions. If we all "aborted" our responsibilities this world would be f**ked beyond belief long ago. Which sadly is goin that direction anyways =\

paper.. you don't have to agree with shit that I have to say. But the fact that you said, "abortion isn't murder, it isn't alive yet" only makes you lose creditability and my respect, for whatever that's worth.

Abortion is murder, as Paperplane said, if your heart stops beating you wouldn't be alive, a fetus' heart is beating, so it is alive, and aborting it is murder. It's that simple. If all these people can say "It's my body, it's my choice," it was your choice to open your legs and get pregnant, so deal with it. How fair is it to take the life of an innocent child, the result of your actions, and make them pay for it? It's your body? Well, you're now sharing it with someone else. And as for "not being able to live outside of the womb and surviving?" a newborn baby, without their mother, would not be able to survive on it's own, and depends on it's mother to care for it in the same ways they did in the womb. You all will understand when you have your own children. I'm sure you won't think of them as parasites then.