Those 3 words [i love you], pressured into saying it? |
 Apr 1 2008, 08:59 PM
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Me and my boyfriend were hanging out and we were making out for a bit... I guess things got "hot" and then he just said "[my name] i love you" and I said "i love you too"
It's not that i mind that he loves me... it's just that we've only been dating for 1 1/2 month and i just don't know why he said it... it would have been fine with me if he hadn't said that for a while... and I don't know if i love him... i know i really like him... but love? has anyone else feel like they're been maybe pressured into saying that back? |
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Apr 2 2008, 12:28 PM
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If you're feeling pressured to say the words, then you shouldn't say them at all. It isn't fair to him if you say them and don't exactly mean them, which I don't think you do at this point (from what you've said). I've felt like this before in my earlier relationships too. As Kay said, love is a powerful word, and shouldn't be thrown out there every which way. Wait until you're sure you mean it to say it back to him, and maybe talk to him about saying it to you, as well. Communication is a big factor in relationships.
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bitesnkisses Those 3 words [i love you] Apr 1 2008, 08:59 PM
aaayotiffany this is like deja vu reading this, lmao.
you shou... Apr 1 2008, 09:48 PM sugarrcube infatuation!!!!!!!... Apr 1 2008, 10:25 PM bitesnkisses I mean, I've told him "i love you" ... Apr 1 2008, 11:36 PM
aaayotiffany QUOTE(bitesnkisses @ Apr 2 2008, 12:36 AM... Apr 3 2008, 11:13 AM Kayc05 I've felt pressured before when I was younger ... Apr 1 2008, 11:45 PM Stefanny To answer your question. No. I don't think so?... Apr 1 2008, 11:52 PM Edwinbarkhordarian love = fake
damn hopeless romantics... Apr 1 2008, 11:59 PM sugarrcube i dnt think there's such thing anymore as true... Apr 2 2008, 01:48 AM marielamuneka You just shouldnt say it back if you dont feel it ... Apr 2 2008, 12:00 PM Detective Don't be rushing things so quick, especially i... Apr 2 2008, 12:15 PM Tamacracker QUOTE(bitesnkisses @ Apr 1 2008, 09:59 PM... Apr 2 2008, 12:19 PM bitesnkisses QUOTE(Tamacracker @ Apr 2 2008, 12:19 PM)... Apr 2 2008, 04:29 PM Tamacracker Just be careful with males. Some are men & som... Apr 2 2008, 04:50 PM sugarrcube pssshhh!! i wanted to say somethin bout se... Apr 3 2008, 03:26 AM aimeesayswhat The problem for me is not saying it...it's me ... Apr 3 2008, 08:13 PM |
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