Those 3 words [i love you], pressured into saying it? |
 Apr 1 2008, 08:59 PM
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Me and my boyfriend were hanging out and we were making out for a bit... I guess things got "hot" and then he just said "[my name] i love you" and I said "i love you too"
It's not that i mind that he loves me... it's just that we've only been dating for 1 1/2 month and i just don't know why he said it... it would have been fine with me if he hadn't said that for a while... and I don't know if i love him... i know i really like him... but love? has anyone else feel like they're been maybe pressured into saying that back? |
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Apr 2 2008, 12:19 PM
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QUOTE(bitesnkisses @ Apr 1 2008, 09:59 PM)  Me and my boyfriend were hanging out and we were making out for a bit... I guess things got "hot" and then he just said "[my name] i love you" and I said "i love you too" It's not that i mind that he loves me... it's just that we've only been dating for 1 1/2 month and i just don't know why he said it... it would have been fine with me if he hadn't said that for a while... and I don't know if i love him... i know i really like him... but love? has anyone else feel like they're been maybe pressured into saying that back? Sex. He's conditioning you for sex. Men tend to be very slick, they use the word love repeatedly to brain wash you and take advantage of you. Love isn't spontaneous. Anyone who says it is, is either a kid or some sort of retard who hasn't really experienced love. Love is a thing of patience, it's depended on knowledge of self and your partner. On a emotional, mental, and physical level. He's only sayin those words to confuse you and get you to give it up to him easier and quicker into the relationship. |
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bitesnkisses Those 3 words [i love you] Apr 1 2008, 08:59 PM
aaayotiffany this is like deja vu reading this, lmao.
you shou... Apr 1 2008, 09:48 PM sugarrcube infatuation!!!!!!!... Apr 1 2008, 10:25 PM bitesnkisses I mean, I've told him "i love you" ... Apr 1 2008, 11:36 PM
aaayotiffany QUOTE(bitesnkisses @ Apr 2 2008, 12:36 AM... Apr 3 2008, 11:13 AM Kayc05 I've felt pressured before when I was younger ... Apr 1 2008, 11:45 PM Stefanny To answer your question. No. I don't think so?... Apr 1 2008, 11:52 PM Edwinbarkhordarian love = fake
damn hopeless romantics... Apr 1 2008, 11:59 PM sugarrcube i dnt think there's such thing anymore as true... Apr 2 2008, 01:48 AM marielamuneka You just shouldnt say it back if you dont feel it ... Apr 2 2008, 12:00 PM Detective Don't be rushing things so quick, especially i... Apr 2 2008, 12:15 PM bitesnkisses QUOTE(Tamacracker @ Apr 2 2008, 12:19 PM)... Apr 2 2008, 04:29 PM Reconditee If you're feeling pressured to say the words, ... Apr 2 2008, 12:28 PM Tamacracker Just be careful with males. Some are men & som... Apr 2 2008, 04:50 PM sugarrcube pssshhh!! i wanted to say somethin bout se... Apr 3 2008, 03:26 AM aimeesayswhat The problem for me is not saying it...it's me ... Apr 3 2008, 08:13 PM |
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