Those 3 words [i love you], pressured into saying it? |
 Apr 1 2008, 08:59 PM
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 Amor caecus est  Group: Member Posts: 110 Joined: Mar 2007 Member No: 508,949  |
Me and my boyfriend were hanging out and we were making out for a bit... I guess things got "hot" and then he just said "[my name] i love you" and I said "i love you too"
It's not that i mind that he loves me... it's just that we've only been dating for 1 1/2 month and i just don't know why he said it... it would have been fine with me if he hadn't said that for a while... and I don't know if i love him... i know i really like him... but love? has anyone else feel like they're been maybe pressured into saying that back? |
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Apr 1 2008, 11:45 PM
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 The Illustrious Mari C. Group: Member Posts: 586 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 26,671 |
I've felt pressured before when I was younger & I'd just go on & say it back but I didn't mean it in the sense that they probably did...Love is a powerful word & I've learned over time it's better not to say it if you don't mean it because you don't know how they can affect the other person & if they truly love you they'd still respect that you dont feel the same way & it won't change their feelings for you either otherwise it definitely isn't real
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bitesnkisses Those 3 words [i love you] Apr 1 2008, 08:59 PM
aaayotiffany this is like deja vu reading this, lmao.
you shou... Apr 1 2008, 09:48 PM sugarrcube infatuation!!!!!!!... Apr 1 2008, 10:25 PM bitesnkisses I mean, I've told him "i love you" ... Apr 1 2008, 11:36 PM
aaayotiffany QUOTE(bitesnkisses @ Apr 2 2008, 12:36 AM... Apr 3 2008, 11:13 AM Stefanny To answer your question. No. I don't think so?... Apr 1 2008, 11:52 PM Edwinbarkhordarian love = fake
damn hopeless romantics... Apr 1 2008, 11:59 PM sugarrcube i dnt think there's such thing anymore as true... Apr 2 2008, 01:48 AM marielamuneka You just shouldnt say it back if you dont feel it ... Apr 2 2008, 12:00 PM Detective Don't be rushing things so quick, especially i... Apr 2 2008, 12:15 PM Tamacracker QUOTE(bitesnkisses @ Apr 1 2008, 09:59 PM... Apr 2 2008, 12:19 PM bitesnkisses QUOTE(Tamacracker @ Apr 2 2008, 12:19 PM)... Apr 2 2008, 04:29 PM Reconditee If you're feeling pressured to say the words, ... Apr 2 2008, 12:28 PM Tamacracker Just be careful with males. Some are men & som... Apr 2 2008, 04:50 PM sugarrcube pssshhh!! i wanted to say somethin bout se... Apr 3 2008, 03:26 AM aimeesayswhat The problem for me is not saying it...it's me ... Apr 3 2008, 08:13 PM |
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