Those 3 words [i love you], pressured into saying it? |
 Apr 1 2008, 08:59 PM
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 Amor caecus est  Group: Member Posts: 110 Joined: Mar 2007 Member No: 508,949  |
Me and my boyfriend were hanging out and we were making out for a bit... I guess things got "hot" and then he just said "[my name] i love you" and I said "i love you too"
It's not that i mind that he loves me... it's just that we've only been dating for 1 1/2 month and i just don't know why he said it... it would have been fine with me if he hadn't said that for a while... and I don't know if i love him... i know i really like him... but love? has anyone else feel like they're been maybe pressured into saying that back? |
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Apr 1 2008, 09:48 PM
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 yo yo yiggidy yo. Group: Official Member Posts: 1,606 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,591 |
this is like deja vu reading this, lmao.
you shouldn't be pressured into saying something like that because "i love you" isn't something you throw around in everyday conversation with people. my boyfriend was similar to this, he said "i love you" REALLY early in our relationship. a lot earlier than i would have said it. but of course i felt really bad because i thought he would expect me to say it back. so when he said it, i was like, "uhh.. thanks?" lmao. it was actually funny. so right after, he told me that he didn't expect me to say it back and that it was just how he felt and how he really wanted to tell me because he's never felt that way about anyone, etc etc etc. so never feel pressured to do anything that you don't want to do. and i don't think your boyfriend was expecting you to say it back, or was he? |
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bitesnkisses Those 3 words [i love you] Apr 1 2008, 08:59 PM
sugarrcube infatuation!!!!!!!... Apr 1 2008, 10:25 PM bitesnkisses I mean, I've told him "i love you" ... Apr 1 2008, 11:36 PM
aaayotiffany QUOTE(bitesnkisses @ Apr 2 2008, 12:36 AM... Apr 3 2008, 11:13 AM Kayc05 I've felt pressured before when I was younger ... Apr 1 2008, 11:45 PM Stefanny To answer your question. No. I don't think so?... Apr 1 2008, 11:52 PM Edwinbarkhordarian love = fake
damn hopeless romantics... Apr 1 2008, 11:59 PM sugarrcube i dnt think there's such thing anymore as true... Apr 2 2008, 01:48 AM marielamuneka You just shouldnt say it back if you dont feel it ... Apr 2 2008, 12:00 PM Detective Don't be rushing things so quick, especially i... Apr 2 2008, 12:15 PM Tamacracker QUOTE(bitesnkisses @ Apr 1 2008, 09:59 PM... Apr 2 2008, 12:19 PM bitesnkisses QUOTE(Tamacracker @ Apr 2 2008, 12:19 PM)... Apr 2 2008, 04:29 PM Reconditee If you're feeling pressured to say the words, ... Apr 2 2008, 12:28 PM Tamacracker Just be careful with males. Some are men & som... Apr 2 2008, 04:50 PM sugarrcube pssshhh!! i wanted to say somethin bout se... Apr 3 2008, 03:26 AM aimeesayswhat The problem for me is not saying it...it's me ... Apr 3 2008, 08:13 PM |
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