talkin on the phone.... Options

[theguardsman]

ive got a problem recently...sometimes when i talk on the fone with my gf, i dun think there is anything to talk about..ijust duno what to say somtiems...its just awkward silence...iduno...she doesnt talk as much as before..and probably idont too...cuz i usually talk more when someone makes a comment or statement orwhatever..iduno...i get affected easily. so yeh....what's the problem tho...is our relationship turing bad...or its just..a short term probme...hopefully..iduno...
please help.

[LoveToMySilas]

Sometimes you spend too much time together so you end up having nothing to talk about. Try limiting it to once a day or less so you guys can discuss more things.

[Sprague]

Sometimes you spend too much time together so you end up having nothing to talk about.

This is currently what me and my boyfriend are going through, as well. More so of the fact that I'm extremely shy. He usually does all the talking and I'm strung along trying to keep up, haha. But we talked to each other about not talking to each other, and he's fine with me not being AS talkative as other girls or his other friends. Just be open with your significant other and tell her that the silence is worrying/bothering you. Ask her how she feels about it as well.

Or, LoveToMySilas' suggestion is good -- spend the day away from each other and do your own thing. You'll have much more to talk and catch up with each other about. :]