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[weed]

i found my boyfriends secret myspace, i saw him flirting with other girls and saying this like " i cant wait to see you" and "i hope you dnt mind im flirting"..

my heart is torn. i cant explain this feeling. It just hurts.

please make this stop.

[mellysmelly]

i kinda had this same situation with my bf
i went into his email ne day when i was bored at school and i saw that he was flirting with some girl he was working with on some project

i asked him about it and he was denying it and he went in and deleted the messages and when i confronted him about that he kept denying it
and FINALLY admitted to it

he basically said he didnt realize it were flirting and deleted the messages cuz he was scared to lose me

that was a month ago and im still with him even though i dont trust him and havent yet forgiven him and he knows that. hes having to regain my trust


you should do the same. give him a second chance but let him know everything wont be dandy right after, that he will have to regain your trust

its not second nature for guys to flirt, its not in their blood, its a dam stereotype so what he did was wrong even if it is online. especailly having a secret myspace. idk where/ how i can help you with that area

but i dont believe he doesnt love you anymore, give him a chance but with a warning you will leave him if it happens again (keeping things from you and flirting)

goodluck

[RissyMel]

i kinda had this same situation with my bf
i went into his email ne day when i was bored at school and i saw that he was flirting with some girl he was working with on some project

that's not right.
it's a violation of his personal privacy

[weed]

that's not right.
it's a violation of his personal privacy

f**k that shit.
(in my case) i feel that if he lied about it i have all the f**king right in the world to "violate" his personal privacy.

people like you piss me the f**k off you know that?

can someone please

close this topic.

k thanks.