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AimeeLynn
post Mar 27 2008, 09:46 AM
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I like this guy at my work. He is basically my dream guy but bad thing is I'm in a relationship with a guy that is not my type at all. I been having a lot of dreams of this guy at my work and not my bf. I can't dump him because of his b-day coming up this Sunday. The main reason to why I'm with him was because my mom wanted me to go out with him.

Good qualities of the bf:
-he has been good to me for the last 4 months we have been together
-always have dinner dates whenever out
-great personality
-very social
-my mom loves him being with me

Bad qualities of the bf:
-he drinks
-he had smoked weed but doesn't anymore but told me that he would in college
-kind of big
-moody
-pressures me to have sex with him a lot


I really do like him and use to love him.
But I have no idea anymore.

Questions:

Is my dreams trying to tell me something?
Should we take a break after his b-day?
Is it wrong that I like someone else?

 
 
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DeviantShadows
post Mar 27 2008, 06:42 PM
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I agree with what everyone else is saying; if you're not happy with the relationship, then end it.

Oooooo, and if my boyfriend EVER tried to pressure me into doing something I didn't want to do, especially sex, I would dump him in a heartbeat. Nobody deserves to be treated like that. If you do stay with him, make sure you had a serious talk about it. Don't be afraid to stand up for yourself.
 
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post Mar 27 2008, 07:01 PM
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QUOTE(DeviantShadows @ Mar 27 2008, 07:42 PM) *
I agree with what everyone else is saying; if you're not happy with the relationship, then end it.

Oooooo, and if my boyfriend EVER tried to pressure me into doing something I didn't want to do, especially sex, I would dump him in a heartbeat. Nobody deserves to be treated like that. If you do stay with him, make sure you had a serious talk about it. Don't be afraid to stand up for yourself.

Yeah but all it really takes is some sweet talking. If he knows how to speak, he can pull females left and right and get them butt ass naked.
 
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post Mar 27 2008, 08:21 PM
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QUOTE(Tamacracker @ Mar 27 2008, 08:01 PM) *
Yeah but all it really takes is some sweet talking. If he knows how to speak, he can pull females left and right and get them butt ass naked.


Not all girls are that easy.
 
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post Mar 28 2008, 03:37 PM
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QUOTE(DeviantShadows @ Mar 27 2008, 09:21 PM) *
Not all girls are that easy.


Most are, in my experience. Thus makin me stay away from white girls, they're too easy for me.
 

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stolen   In a relationship and liking someone else...   Mar 27 2008, 09:46 AM
Tamacracker   Wow... comparing and contrasting. Well save yourse...   Mar 27 2008, 09:54 AM
carolannexbh   QUOTE(stolen @ Mar 27 2008, 09:46 AM) I l...   Mar 27 2008, 09:55 AM
Tamacracker   QUOTE(carolannexbh @ Mar 27 2008, 10:55 A...   Mar 27 2008, 10:01 AM
stolen   ^ really did like him before after getting to know...   Mar 27 2008, 10:05 AM
Tamacracker   QUOTE(stolen @ Mar 27 2008, 11:05 AM) ^ r...   Mar 27 2008, 10:09 AM
nguoicasison   QUOTE(stolen @ Mar 27 2008, 11:05 AM) ^ r...   Mar 27 2008, 12:40 PM
synkro   QUOTE(stolen @ Mar 27 2008, 07:05 AM) ^ r...   Mar 27 2008, 06:30 PM
carolannexbh   QUOTE(stolen @ Mar 27 2008, 09:46 AM) I c...   Mar 27 2008, 10:05 AM
Melie   what's more important, your happiness or makin...   Mar 27 2008, 12:05 PM
mizzkewl06   i know exaclty what you're going through. i wa...   Mar 27 2008, 12:54 PM
Synesthesia   QUOTE(stolen @ Mar 27 2008, 10:46 AM) -pr...   Mar 27 2008, 03:26 PM
LoveToMySilas   ^ I agree with Cristy. Regardless of his birthday...   Mar 27 2008, 05:11 PM
DeviantShadows   I agree with what everyone else is saying; if you...   Mar 27 2008, 06:42 PM
Tamacracker   QUOTE(DeviantShadows @ Mar 27 2008, 07:42...   Mar 27 2008, 07:01 PM
DeviantShadows   QUOTE(Tamacracker @ Mar 27 2008, 08:01 PM...   Mar 27 2008, 08:21 PM
Tamacracker   QUOTE(DeviantShadows @ Mar 27 2008, 09:21...   Mar 28 2008, 03:37 PM
Castaway   i stopped reading after "pressures me to ha...   Mar 27 2008, 07:57 PM
aimeesayswhat   i 'm not easy Lol and that werid that you woul...   Mar 28 2008, 07:30 PM
Tamacracker   QUOTE(aimeesayswhat @ Mar 28 2008, 08:30 ...   Mar 28 2008, 11:39 PM
nguoicasison   QUOTE(Tamacracker @ Mar 29 2008, 12:39 AM...   Mar 29 2008, 07:27 AM
31miracles   QUOTE(stolen @ Mar 27 2008, 10:46 AM) Is ...   Mar 30 2008, 06:24 PM
sugarrcube   i honestly think it is seriously useless to stay w...   Mar 30 2008, 06:31 PM


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