heartbreak. Options

[weed]

i found my boyfriends secret myspace, i saw him flirting with other girls and saying this like " i cant wait to see you" and "i hope you dnt mind im flirting"..

my heart is torn. i cant explain this feeling. It just hurts.

please make this stop.

[aaayotiffany]

i actually have a friend that went through this.
the boyfriend who is online flirting with girls saying "i can't wait to meet you" blah blah.
they've been together for two years since their senior year in high school. after what happened, she completely lost his trust. and now they're not together anymore, because he wanted to do his own thing with her there in the end. she would always come to me telling me things like how she doesn't trust him and how she hates what he's become.
but the main reason why they broke up isn't because she didn't trust him, its because they didn't communicate at all. he wouldn't call her, she wouldn't call him because she would wait for him and he would wait for her. it was all very immature and stupid.

so i agree with some of these people on this thread, you should definitely talk it out with him [if you haven't already], also consider the three years you've been together. i'm sure you'll work something out [if you haven't already].