In a relationship and liking someone else..., =[ Options

[AimeeLynn]

I like this guy at my work. He is basically my dream guy but bad thing is I'm in a relationship with a guy that is not my type at all. I been having a lot of dreams of this guy at my work and not my bf. I can't dump him because of his b-day coming up this Sunday. The main reason to why I'm with him was because my mom wanted me to go out with him.

Good qualities of the bf:
-he has been good to me for the last 4 months we have been together
-always have dinner dates whenever out
-great personality
-very social
-my mom loves him being with me

Bad qualities of the bf:
-he drinks
-he had smoked weed but doesn't anymore but told me that he would in college
-kind of big
-moody
-pressures me to have sex with him a lot


I really do like him and use to love him.
But I have no idea anymore.

Questions:
Is my dreams trying to tell me something?
Should we take a break after his b-day?
Is it wrong that I like someone else?

[LoveToMySilas]

^ I agree with Cristy.

Regardless of his birthday or not, you should do whats best for you. If this guy is pressuring you to do something that you don't want to do, then drop him like a sack of potatoes. Or you could have a chat with him about his whole sex frenzy and how you don't appreciate it. More or less, its up to what you want not what anyone else does.