In a relationship and liking someone else..., =[ Options

[AimeeLynn]

I like this guy at my work. He is basically my dream guy but bad thing is I'm in a relationship with a guy that is not my type at all. I been having a lot of dreams of this guy at my work and not my bf. I can't dump him because of his b-day coming up this Sunday. The main reason to why I'm with him was because my mom wanted me to go out with him.

Good qualities of the bf:
-he has been good to me for the last 4 months we have been together
-always have dinner dates whenever out
-great personality
-very social
-my mom loves him being with me

Bad qualities of the bf:
-he drinks
-he had smoked weed but doesn't anymore but told me that he would in college
-kind of big
-moody
-pressures me to have sex with him a lot


I really do like him and use to love him.
But I have no idea anymore.

Questions:
Is my dreams trying to tell me something?
Should we take a break after his b-day?
Is it wrong that I like someone else?

[tokyo-rose]

-pressures me to have sex with him a lot

That alone should tell you that you either need to have a serious talk or break up with him entirely. It doesn't matter that his birthday is coming up; you have to do what's necessary. And it doesn't matter that your mom wanted you to date him -- she's not the one dating him, you are. If you're not happy, then break up. He and your mom will deal.