In a relationship and liking someone else..., =[ Options

[AimeeLynn]

I like this guy at my work. He is basically my dream guy but bad thing is I'm in a relationship with a guy that is not my type at all. I been having a lot of dreams of this guy at my work and not my bf. I can't dump him because of his b-day coming up this Sunday. The main reason to why I'm with him was because my mom wanted me to go out with him.

Good qualities of the bf:
-he has been good to me for the last 4 months we have been together
-always have dinner dates whenever out
-great personality
-very social
-my mom loves him being with me

Bad qualities of the bf:
-he drinks
-he had smoked weed but doesn't anymore but told me that he would in college
-kind of big
-moody
-pressures me to have sex with him a lot


I really do like him and use to love him.
But I have no idea anymore.

Questions:
Is my dreams trying to tell me something?
Should we take a break after his b-day?
Is it wrong that I like someone else?

[mizzkewl06]

i know exaclty what you're going through. i was in your situation my junior year. i was with this guy for over one year, and then things started changing and everything was about sex all of a sudden. and i just felt torn because when all of this stared happening i started crushing on another guy. to make a long story short i broke up with my then boyfriend 2 days before his birthday. in the long run it was the best choice for me. i was happy. and thats how you have to see this situation. what makes you happy? what's the best choice for you? just remember, guys will break your heart, and sometimes you'll break their hearts. it's just life.