In a relationship and liking someone else..., =[ Options

[AimeeLynn]

I like this guy at my work. He is basically my dream guy but bad thing is I'm in a relationship with a guy that is not my type at all. I been having a lot of dreams of this guy at my work and not my bf. I can't dump him because of his b-day coming up this Sunday. The main reason to why I'm with him was because my mom wanted me to go out with him.

Good qualities of the bf:
-he has been good to me for the last 4 months we have been together
-always have dinner dates whenever out
-great personality
-very social
-my mom loves him being with me

Bad qualities of the bf:
-he drinks
-he had smoked weed but doesn't anymore but told me that he would in college
-kind of big
-moody
-pressures me to have sex with him a lot


I really do like him and use to love him.
But I have no idea anymore.

Questions:
Is my dreams trying to tell me something?
Should we take a break after his b-day?
Is it wrong that I like someone else?

[carolannexbh]

I can't dump him because of his b-day coming up this Sunday. The main reason to why I'm with him was because my mom wanted me to go out with him.

Wow something new in there. Ok. You shouldnt be with someone just because it pleases your mom. If you're not happy, why should you be in the relationship? So your mom can be happy? Its not fair to you that you should put up with this just so you can please someone else. If you have to, wait til after Sunday.